"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Unusual Happenings! HELP

Sho-No-Luv

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Fellas I'm not sure lately, maybe I'm slipping. I'm experiencing things, I've never experienced before out here in the dating world. I already posted a few weeks back about a female bringing up in conversation that she had a fuuck buddy.

Well now I have two more tales.

First, had a female give me what I thought was a cell number, I called it got a voicemail, hung up. But because their was no greeting on it decided to check it and found out that it was a landline:(

Next had a really bizarre conversation with a 25 year old female after she said that she wanted to talk dirty that went like this:

Me: So tell me your deepest darkest fantasy

Female:
I like controlling men... I like to make a man scream like a helpless *****.

Me: Say what?

Female: I like controlling men..

Me: Oh you mean controlling them while having sex right?

Female: yes, sex and just in general in just about everything.

Me: Controlling men but why?

Female:
I like the idea of making them beg and feel helpless. I prefer to give than receive. I think most men secretly like it..

Me: CLICK...:confused:

MAN WTF IS GOING ON OUT HERE?? The last two weeks have been weird asf...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sho-No-Luv

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BUMP
 

RangerMIke

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There are all kinds... yes there are women that like to control men... and there are men that like being controlled. If you are not one of them, then hanging up was the right thing to do.
 

Sho-No-Luv

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There are all kinds... yes there are women that like to control men... and there are men that like being controlled. If you are not one of them, then hanging up was the right thing to do.
Agreed, but what about the one that gave me a landline number? I mean most guy's would probably take it as lack of interest right? Either that or something to hide..
 

dustmuffin

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Fellas I'm not sure lately, maybe I'm slipping. I'm experiencing things, I've never experienced before out here in the dating world. I already posted a few weeks back about a female bringing up in conversation that she had a fuuck buddy.

Well now I have two more tales.

First, had a female give me what I thought was a cell number, I called it got a voicemail, hung up. But because their was no greeting on it decided to check it and found out that it was a landline:(

Next had a really bizarre conversation with a 25 year old female after she said that she wanted to talk dirty that went like this:

Me: So tell me your deepest darkest fantasy

Female:
I like controlling men... I like to make a man scream like a helpless *****.

Me: Say what?




Female: I like controlling men..

Me: Oh you mean controlling them while having sex right?

Female: yes, sex and just in general in just about everything.

Me: Controlling men but why?

Female:
I like the idea of making them beg and feel helpless. I prefer to give than receive. I think most men secretly like it..

Me: CLICK...:confused:

MAN WTF IS GOING ON OUT HERE?? The last two weeks have been weird asf...
OH he ll I would have asked the second one out and turned the tables on her. I like a challenge. Tie her up and spank her a ss till it's red with shame.....tease her and make her beg.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sho-No-Luv

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Dominatrix hookers make top dollar. And it's legal, because they don't let the guy have actual sex with them. I see a pimping opportunity, here.
Lmfao..
 

El Payaso

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Agreed, but what about the one that gave me a landline number? I mean most guy's would probably take it as lack of interest right? Either that or something to hide..
Who cares. Move on.
 
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