"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Unusual Happenings! HELP

Sho-No-Luv

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Fellas I'm not sure lately, maybe I'm slipping. I'm experiencing things, I've never experienced before out here in the dating world. I already posted a few weeks back about a female bringing up in conversation that she had a fuuck buddy.

Well now I have two more tales.

First, had a female give me what I thought was a cell number, I called it got a voicemail, hung up. But because their was no greeting on it decided to check it and found out that it was a landline:(

Next had a really bizarre conversation with a 25 year old female after she said that she wanted to talk dirty that went like this:

Me: So tell me your deepest darkest fantasy

Female:
I like controlling men... I like to make a man scream like a helpless *****.

Me: Say what?

Female: I like controlling men..

Me: Oh you mean controlling them while having sex right?

Female: yes, sex and just in general in just about everything.

Me: Controlling men but why?

Female:
I like the idea of making them beg and feel helpless. I prefer to give than receive. I think most men secretly like it..

Me: CLICK...:confused:

MAN WTF IS GOING ON OUT HERE?? The last two weeks have been weird asf...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sho-No-Luv

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BUMP
 

RangerMIke

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There are all kinds... yes there are women that like to control men... and there are men that like being controlled. If you are not one of them, then hanging up was the right thing to do.
 

Sho-No-Luv

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There are all kinds... yes there are women that like to control men... and there are men that like being controlled. If you are not one of them, then hanging up was the right thing to do.
Agreed, but what about the one that gave me a landline number? I mean most guy's would probably take it as lack of interest right? Either that or something to hide..
 

dustmuffin

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Fellas I'm not sure lately, maybe I'm slipping. I'm experiencing things, I've never experienced before out here in the dating world. I already posted a few weeks back about a female bringing up in conversation that she had a fuuck buddy.

Well now I have two more tales.

First, had a female give me what I thought was a cell number, I called it got a voicemail, hung up. But because their was no greeting on it decided to check it and found out that it was a landline:(

Next had a really bizarre conversation with a 25 year old female after she said that she wanted to talk dirty that went like this:

Me: So tell me your deepest darkest fantasy

Female:
I like controlling men... I like to make a man scream like a helpless *****.

Me: Say what?




Female: I like controlling men..

Me: Oh you mean controlling them while having sex right?

Female: yes, sex and just in general in just about everything.

Me: Controlling men but why?

Female:
I like the idea of making them beg and feel helpless. I prefer to give than receive. I think most men secretly like it..

Me: CLICK...:confused:

MAN WTF IS GOING ON OUT HERE?? The last two weeks have been weird asf...
OH he ll I would have asked the second one out and turned the tables on her. I like a challenge. Tie her up and spank her a ss till it's red with shame.....tease her and make her beg.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sho-No-Luv

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Dominatrix hookers make top dollar. And it's legal, because they don't let the guy have actual sex with them. I see a pimping opportunity, here.
Lmfao..
 

El Payaso

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Agreed, but what about the one that gave me a landline number? I mean most guy's would probably take it as lack of interest right? Either that or something to hide..
Who cares. Move on.
 
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