Glimpseone
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 5, 2004
- Messages
- 15
- Reaction score
- 0
Personally, I'd much rather have an 8 who may not be a model, but at least isn't stuck up like most 10s. Plus, that cookie cutter hot is never as good as unique.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Unique 8 or Banging 10?
- Thread starter Glimpseone
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
triple_ultima
Senior Don Juan
Word. You intrigue me, glimpseone. We should talk on AIM sometime.
triple_ultima
Senior Don Juan
Re: Re: Unique 8 or Banging 10?
I would take the 8, because I just don't like mediocrity, especially when it comes to physical attraction.
Absolute Pimp
Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 15, 2004
- Messages
- 18
- Reaction score
- 0
^^ Ditto.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I won't lie, physical attraction is very important.
But personality always wins out in the end. There's just too many boring girls out there to pass over one with a great personality. Maybe I wouldn't date the 6 over the 8, but I'd make an honest attempt to be friends with her.
But personality always wins out in the end. There's just too many boring girls out there to pass over one with a great personality. Maybe I wouldn't date the 6 over the 8, but I'd make an honest attempt to be friends with her.
Everyone has their flaws. She may be a 10 to you but she won't be a 10 to someone else. So saying a girl is a 10 is like saying she's perfect. And the perfect girl would be perfect for everybody. I'd stop at HB9 or HB9.5
But that's just critical talk. He just doesn't believe in 10's.
But that's just critical talk. He just doesn't believe in 10's.
was just browsing in here and noticed this!
You've got a pretty warped perception of an 8 if you think a 10 wouldn't have a personality to match!
Remember to work personality into the 1-10 equation, if you go like that then a 10 would indeed be better than an 8, which is why again there is no 10 IMO
.
10 means no flaws, every girl has a flaw, in BOTH looks and personality.
You've got a pretty warped perception of an 8 if you think a 10 wouldn't have a personality to match!
Remember to work personality into the 1-10 equation, if you go like that then a 10 would indeed be better than an 8, which is why again there is no 10 IMO
. 10 means no flaws, every girl has a flaw, in BOTH looks and personality.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
triple_ultima
Senior Don Juan
FFS you can have a ten because I assume people are rounding. No girl is perfect so if some chick has a freckle on her left cheek you didnt like would you rate her a 9.999... No person is perfect, and neither is any scale. If you ever used the scale and rated somone a 2 for face (assumming you use the ass/face/legs/chest/personality test) then you would have said her face was 100% perfect... We round it... So yes their are perfect 10's even though there are no perfect people it only means that according to the scale they have a 2 in each category.
At any rate my answer is why not use the hb 10 as a fk buddy while you go out with the 8? And if that doesnt morraly sute you then fk the 10 first then go out with the 8.
At any rate my answer is why not use the hb 10 as a fk buddy while you go out with the 8? And if that doesnt morraly sute you then fk the 10 first then go out with the 8.
i think that we need to have this consideration from our own standards.
ie, a hb10 for me, might be a hb8 for someone else. so if i say i meet a hb10 i'm saying that i meet someone who is perfect for me. although this hb10 might not be perfect for someone else
ie, a hb10 for me, might be a hb8 for someone else. so if i say i meet a hb10 i'm saying that i meet someone who is perfect for me. although this hb10 might not be perfect for someone else
I've yet to see an hb10..why? Because I don't really know what I consider perfect. There really is no perfect girl. But to answer your question, it depends on what you're looking for. An LTR or just a f*** buddy? If you're looking for an LTR, I'd say go with the 8. She's attractive and probably more interesting.
DJBen
Master Don Juan
LTR = HB8
Good ONS/FB = HB10
I know a 9.5, which is as close as I get to a 10. We met through a friend. She's the sweetest, nicest, most cincere person I've ever met. Unfortunately for everyone that tries to meet her, she also has the biggest ***** shield man has ever seen.
A lot of 9.5's, or 10's in some cases, are just like everyone else inside - if you get that far. Hell, dont you like to work for your woman?
Good ONS/FB = HB10
I know a 9.5, which is as close as I get to a 10. We met through a friend. She's the sweetest, nicest, most cincere person I've ever met. Unfortunately for everyone that tries to meet her, she also has the biggest ***** shield man has ever seen.
A lot of 9.5's, or 10's in some cases, are just like everyone else inside - if you get that far. Hell, dont you like to work for your woman?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
On_the_Top
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 30, 2003
- Messages
- 396
- Reaction score
- 0
I don't believe in a ten either (unless you pay a vist to some super natural place) the highest I have ever meet on scale is a 8.5 .