Glimpseone
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Personally, I'd much rather have an 8 who may not be a model, but at least isn't stuck up like most 10s. Plus, that cookie cutter hot is never as good as unique.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Unique 8 or Banging 10?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
triple_ultima
Senior Don Juan
Word. You intrigue me, glimpseone. We should talk on AIM sometime.
triple_ultima
Senior Don Juan
Re: Re: Unique 8 or Banging 10?
I would take the 8, because I just don't like mediocrity, especially when it comes to physical attraction.
Absolute Pimp
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^^ Ditto.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I won't lie, physical attraction is very important.
But personality always wins out in the end. There's just too many boring girls out there to pass over one with a great personality. Maybe I wouldn't date the 6 over the 8, but I'd make an honest attempt to be friends with her.
But personality always wins out in the end. There's just too many boring girls out there to pass over one with a great personality. Maybe I wouldn't date the 6 over the 8, but I'd make an honest attempt to be friends with her.
Everyone has their flaws. She may be a 10 to you but she won't be a 10 to someone else. So saying a girl is a 10 is like saying she's perfect. And the perfect girl would be perfect for everybody. I'd stop at HB9 or HB9.5
But that's just critical talk. He just doesn't believe in 10's.
But that's just critical talk. He just doesn't believe in 10's.
was just browsing in here and noticed this!
You've got a pretty warped perception of an 8 if you think a 10 wouldn't have a personality to match!
Remember to work personality into the 1-10 equation, if you go like that then a 10 would indeed be better than an 8, which is why again there is no 10 IMO
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10 means no flaws, every girl has a flaw, in BOTH looks and personality.
You've got a pretty warped perception of an 8 if you think a 10 wouldn't have a personality to match!
Remember to work personality into the 1-10 equation, if you go like that then a 10 would indeed be better than an 8, which is why again there is no 10 IMO
. 10 means no flaws, every girl has a flaw, in BOTH looks and personality.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
triple_ultima
Senior Don Juan
FFS you can have a ten because I assume people are rounding. No girl is perfect so if some chick has a freckle on her left cheek you didnt like would you rate her a 9.999... No person is perfect, and neither is any scale. If you ever used the scale and rated somone a 2 for face (assumming you use the ass/face/legs/chest/personality test) then you would have said her face was 100% perfect... We round it... So yes their are perfect 10's even though there are no perfect people it only means that according to the scale they have a 2 in each category.
At any rate my answer is why not use the hb 10 as a fk buddy while you go out with the 8? And if that doesnt morraly sute you then fk the 10 first then go out with the 8.
At any rate my answer is why not use the hb 10 as a fk buddy while you go out with the 8? And if that doesnt morraly sute you then fk the 10 first then go out with the 8.
i think that we need to have this consideration from our own standards.
ie, a hb10 for me, might be a hb8 for someone else. so if i say i meet a hb10 i'm saying that i meet someone who is perfect for me. although this hb10 might not be perfect for someone else
ie, a hb10 for me, might be a hb8 for someone else. so if i say i meet a hb10 i'm saying that i meet someone who is perfect for me. although this hb10 might not be perfect for someone else
I've yet to see an hb10..why? Because I don't really know what I consider perfect. There really is no perfect girl. But to answer your question, it depends on what you're looking for. An LTR or just a f*** buddy? If you're looking for an LTR, I'd say go with the 8. She's attractive and probably more interesting.
DJBen
Master Don Juan
LTR = HB8
Good ONS/FB = HB10
I know a 9.5, which is as close as I get to a 10. We met through a friend. She's the sweetest, nicest, most cincere person I've ever met. Unfortunately for everyone that tries to meet her, she also has the biggest ***** shield man has ever seen.
A lot of 9.5's, or 10's in some cases, are just like everyone else inside - if you get that far. Hell, dont you like to work for your woman?
Good ONS/FB = HB10
I know a 9.5, which is as close as I get to a 10. We met through a friend. She's the sweetest, nicest, most cincere person I've ever met. Unfortunately for everyone that tries to meet her, she also has the biggest ***** shield man has ever seen.
A lot of 9.5's, or 10's in some cases, are just like everyone else inside - if you get that far. Hell, dont you like to work for your woman?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
On_the_Top
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I don't believe in a ten either (unless you pay a vist to some super natural place) the highest I have ever meet on scale is a 8.5 .