"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Turned the tables.

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Swede54

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Well i think i turned the tables. I asked this girl out she said no, because some stupid made up crap im sure. So i started to act rather more disinterested to her, teased her a ****load. Made it apparent that i was too busy for a relationship now. That i couldnt be "tamed". She saw this as a challenge, and says that she will get me now. that i will be hers. Now what to do lol.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It sounds like she is a bit of a handful being that she gave you a rather rediculous test with the broken date thing. Beware of further defective or attention ***** behavior.

That being said, if I were you Id continue doing whatever you are doing. It is probably making her jealous. Eventually she will want you really bad and then you can take her. When exactly to make that move is a question Ill leave to more experienced members of the forum.

Just watch out, if she loves playing games and you play some of your own things could degenerate to being a real pain in the ass and make you look silly. Remember to know when to leave.

Have fun.
 
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there is no such thing as being a challenge or whatever, she is either into you or not. when a girl is not that into me - i just close my potentialability and focus on a girl that finds me interesting.
 
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tires........

Hey,

I would ask her out.

Be aware, she may be an Attention Wh0re.

If she is you are just 'spinning your tires'.

cave dweller
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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