"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Turned the tables.

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Swede54

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Well i think i turned the tables. I asked this girl out she said no, because some stupid made up crap im sure. So i started to act rather more disinterested to her, teased her a ****load. Made it apparent that i was too busy for a relationship now. That i couldnt be "tamed". She saw this as a challenge, and says that she will get me now. that i will be hers. Now what to do lol.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It sounds like she is a bit of a handful being that she gave you a rather rediculous test with the broken date thing. Beware of further defective or attention ***** behavior.

That being said, if I were you Id continue doing whatever you are doing. It is probably making her jealous. Eventually she will want you really bad and then you can take her. When exactly to make that move is a question Ill leave to more experienced members of the forum.

Just watch out, if she loves playing games and you play some of your own things could degenerate to being a real pain in the ass and make you look silly. Remember to know when to leave.

Have fun.
 
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there is no such thing as being a challenge or whatever, she is either into you or not. when a girl is not that into me - i just close my potentialability and focus on a girl that finds me interesting.
 
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tires........

Hey,

I would ask her out.

Be aware, she may be an Attention Wh0re.

If she is you are just 'spinning your tires'.

cave dweller
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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