"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Turned the tables.

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Swede54

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Well i think i turned the tables. I asked this girl out she said no, because some stupid made up crap im sure. So i started to act rather more disinterested to her, teased her a ****load. Made it apparent that i was too busy for a relationship now. That i couldnt be "tamed". She saw this as a challenge, and says that she will get me now. that i will be hers. Now what to do lol.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It sounds like she is a bit of a handful being that she gave you a rather rediculous test with the broken date thing. Beware of further defective or attention ***** behavior.

That being said, if I were you Id continue doing whatever you are doing. It is probably making her jealous. Eventually she will want you really bad and then you can take her. When exactly to make that move is a question Ill leave to more experienced members of the forum.

Just watch out, if she loves playing games and you play some of your own things could degenerate to being a real pain in the ass and make you look silly. Remember to know when to leave.

Have fun.
 
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there is no such thing as being a challenge or whatever, she is either into you or not. when a girl is not that into me - i just close my potentialability and focus on a girl that finds me interesting.
 
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tires........

Hey,

I would ask her out.

Be aware, she may be an Attention Wh0re.

If she is you are just 'spinning your tires'.

cave dweller
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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