"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Trump... Epitome of alpha.

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Trump is one of the most alpha men I know.

He knows who he is, and isn't afraid to be himself. That for me is the most defining trait of an alpha.
I was re-reading Pook last night and he defined "Alpha" as just being yourself and confidence nothing more than being comfortable in your own skin,Trump is certainly that.I always thought that was Pook's best teaching next to "eliminating desire."
 

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I was re-reading Pook last night and he defined "Alpha" as just being yourself and confidence nothing more than being comfortable in your own skin,Trump is certainly that.I always thought that was Pook's best teaching next to "eliminating desire."
Not only being yourself, but loving yourself. Knowing your worth.

If you think Trump is alpha, I have a bridge of bull**** to sell ya.
Oh look another liberal that hates Trump no matter what. Shocker.

I'm guessing you also think Obama WAS an alpha, and knowing you, for one reason only. Another shocker.

What you purposely ignore is that his wife only stays with him because of his status. He's not naturally alpha among men, only among the betas in the democratic base. Trump is actually respected around the world, while Obama was laughed at.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm guessing you also think Obama WAS an alpha, and knowing you, for one reason only. Another shocker.

What you purposely ignore is that his wife only stays with him because of his status. He's not naturally alpha among men, only among the betas in the democratic base. Trump is actually respected around the world, while Obama was laughed at.
They are shell-shocked. He is destroying global institutions... he is the equivalent of the Mongols, or the Vandals. It's like when Machiavelli's 'The Prince' was published - the whole European order was stunned into silence. It was a paradigm shift. Some may interpret it as progress, others as regress. I think it's regression, and you'll see America slide back into another depression/ crisis.

The thing is, with Nukes in the world, nationalism is not an option. Global institutions have to evolve, otherwise it is war.

It's really all about pride and arrogance [insecurity], and the worst kind of patriotism... and the fact that America can not age gracefully. Economic competition becomes a 'national security' issue... and the American administration become war-mongers. God help us.
 

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I'm guessing you also think Obama WAS an alpha, and knowing you, for one reason only. Another shocker.
Nope, you won't find any U.S. politicians that are alpha. The nature of the job is pandering and deception.

What you purposely ignore is that his wife only stays with him because of his status. He's not naturally alpha among men, only among the betas in the democratic base. Trump is actually respected around the world, while Obama was laughed at.
Kim Jong Un and Vladimir Putin are laughing hysterically at this.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Trump is a load of hot air, that sheep like to follow.
 

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Trump is a load of hot air, that sheep like to follow.
Who is "following" Trump? There are many more liberal sheep in this country, than Trump sheep. Most of the people who support Trump were working, instead of out "following" someone. Those people, like myself, are not sheep.
 

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Who is "following" Trump? There are many more liberal sheep in this country, than Trump sheep. Most of the people who support Trump were working, instead of out "following" someone. Those people, like myself, are not sheep.
The liberal frame is a feminine frame.
 

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The liberal frame is a feminine frame.
One essential feature of the masculine frame is a desire for rational unity. A 'meta-frame', that states that politics is irredeemably polarized [between liberals and conservatives], falls short of this ideal.
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Trump lacks tact, he lacks maturity, he's a bull in a china store...hardly the Eiptome of Alpha male.
This is an example of how people have tried to make "alpha males" into perfect human beings, which they are not. At least early members of the community recognized this, moreso than they do now. They realized that many alpha males were actually @ssholes, jerks, and sociopaths. They don't have to be, but they may well might be. Alpha males are just people, who have risen to a certain position either by luck, or through their own skills.

Alpha males do not have to be people that you would like. They do not have to be mature. They do not have to possess admirable traits. They do not all possess identical traits. They do not have to be good people. And you certainly don't have to agree with their politics.

I don't know or care if Donald Trump is an alpha male or not, because I think the obsession the Manosphere has with "alphas" is ridiculous. My guess would be that he is, however, considering he's rich, and he's the president.
 

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Let me explain...laugh if you want but when I'm faced with a decision in the dating world I often ask myself 'how would the charming Bond address this' and it works for me. I guess I could use a real person but I don't know any personally with that tact and charm with women. So when you used the word Epitome it's what I was thinking - a calm, collected, confident, tactful guy and someone that has the looks to pull it all off too. And that is definitely not Trump.


Not true at all! A lot of people can get chit done...most dictators do/did...do you consider them as Alphas? To me an Alpha quality is more about 'carrying a big stick but speaking softly' or...speaking less and doing more or having the charm where people just believe in you.


I guess that depends on who you consider an Alpha as I said above. An Alpha in a pack of wolves builds and grooms his pack to work together as a team, and he's well respected. He doesn't divide them up. Our country is more divided than ever, racism is at its peak in the last 15+yrs. I can go on and on about the economy...the whole tariffs thing which is putting the iconic American companies like Harley Davidson out of business and we have yet to see how any of this has helped our bottom line. Alphas also don't have hours on end to be posting tweets all day long. That right there is a childish/beta attention seeking behavior.


At 43, you are far too old for such nonsense.

^ That. I enjoy discussions and I don't mind being corrected if I'm wrong but I find it frustrating when one can't even have an intelligent discussion without it becoming personal. Even if we don't see things the same way - it's ok because if we thought and functioned the same exact way we would be robots not people.
If u were born inherently dominant, u would understand the term "alpha".

U can learn to be dominant, show u r dominant, walk like one, talk like one but ur true colors will be on display for all to witness when tested by a naturally dominant male.

And I now know you.
 

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If you think Trump is alpha, I have a bridge of bull**** to sell ya.
I'm not in the mood to get into the whole alpha debate about Trump but I can tell you this much first hand. My daughter and I went to a Trump rally in 2016. We were within 6 x feet of him. The man has a presence like no other. A commanding, dominant, and positive presence like I have seen from no other human being. The positive energy in the room was off the charts. People were mesmerized; men, women, and children. Call it alpha. Call it whatever. But I was there and there was definitely more to it than just a guy talking to a crowd.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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