Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
American females don't want to mother males. The fact is that in much of this world girls want to nurture. America males have no clue what that is. Females just don't nurture in America. My gf's have always baked things, had their mother and grandmothers baby me when I visit their commie apartments, and doted on me like I was four years old. Guess what? I love it!Razor Sharp said:No woman wants to mother a man. It's a guaranteed attraction-killer. She needs to feel secure and protected by YOU, not the other way around.
Also like others mentioned, no woman should be put in the same league as your mom. A parent's unconditional love should NEVER be confused for romantic love - the results are always disastrous.
If there is any member of the family she should be treated like, it's your annoying kid sister, and sometimes your daughter when she needs to be spanked.
Really though, what's up with the incestuous analogies? Is this really working for anyone?
Usually, just treating em like women I wanna f*ck works for me *shrug*
I'm getting to like your posts Jimbo. But muscles attract women physically as a lover. Money attracts women as a provider.BigJimbo said:American females don't want to mother males. The fact is that in much of this world girls want to nurture. America males have no clue what that is. Females just don't nurture in America. My gf's have always baked things, had their mother and grandmothers baby me when I visit their commie apartments, and doted on me like I was four years old. Guess what? I love it!
Feeling secure and protected in 2010 equals money. It isn't gayish muscles and an Affliction t-shirt. Money is security. Something that horny teenage boys CAN'T provide. You think some big muscles and a deep voice is going to protect anyone? :crackup: