That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
American females don't want to mother males. The fact is that in much of this world girls want to nurture. America males have no clue what that is. Females just don't nurture in America. My gf's have always baked things, had their mother and grandmothers baby me when I visit their commie apartments, and doted on me like I was four years old. Guess what? I love it!Razor Sharp said:No woman wants to mother a man. It's a guaranteed attraction-killer. She needs to feel secure and protected by YOU, not the other way around.
Also like others mentioned, no woman should be put in the same league as your mom. A parent's unconditional love should NEVER be confused for romantic love - the results are always disastrous.
If there is any member of the family she should be treated like, it's your annoying kid sister, and sometimes your daughter when she needs to be spanked.
Really though, what's up with the incestuous analogies? Is this really working for anyone?
Usually, just treating em like women I wanna f*ck works for me *shrug*
I'm getting to like your posts Jimbo. But muscles attract women physically as a lover. Money attracts women as a provider.BigJimbo said:American females don't want to mother males. The fact is that in much of this world girls want to nurture. America males have no clue what that is. Females just don't nurture in America. My gf's have always baked things, had their mother and grandmothers baby me when I visit their commie apartments, and doted on me like I was four years old. Guess what? I love it!
Feeling secure and protected in 2010 equals money. It isn't gayish muscles and an Affliction t-shirt. Money is security. Something that horny teenage boys CAN'T provide. You think some big muscles and a deep voice is going to protect anyone? :crackup: