Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
American females don't want to mother males. The fact is that in much of this world girls want to nurture. America males have no clue what that is. Females just don't nurture in America. My gf's have always baked things, had their mother and grandmothers baby me when I visit their commie apartments, and doted on me like I was four years old. Guess what? I love it!Razor Sharp said:No woman wants to mother a man. It's a guaranteed attraction-killer. She needs to feel secure and protected by YOU, not the other way around.
Also like others mentioned, no woman should be put in the same league as your mom. A parent's unconditional love should NEVER be confused for romantic love - the results are always disastrous.
If there is any member of the family she should be treated like, it's your annoying kid sister, and sometimes your daughter when she needs to be spanked.
Really though, what's up with the incestuous analogies? Is this really working for anyone?
Usually, just treating em like women I wanna f*ck works for me *shrug*
I'm getting to like your posts Jimbo. But muscles attract women physically as a lover. Money attracts women as a provider.BigJimbo said:American females don't want to mother males. The fact is that in much of this world girls want to nurture. America males have no clue what that is. Females just don't nurture in America. My gf's have always baked things, had their mother and grandmothers baby me when I visit their commie apartments, and doted on me like I was four years old. Guess what? I love it!
Feeling secure and protected in 2010 equals money. It isn't gayish muscles and an Affliction t-shirt. Money is security. Something that horny teenage boys CAN'T provide. You think some big muscles and a deep voice is going to protect anyone? :crackup: