You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
American females don't want to mother males. The fact is that in much of this world girls want to nurture. America males have no clue what that is. Females just don't nurture in America. My gf's have always baked things, had their mother and grandmothers baby me when I visit their commie apartments, and doted on me like I was four years old. Guess what? I love it!Razor Sharp said:No woman wants to mother a man. It's a guaranteed attraction-killer. She needs to feel secure and protected by YOU, not the other way around.
Also like others mentioned, no woman should be put in the same league as your mom. A parent's unconditional love should NEVER be confused for romantic love - the results are always disastrous.
If there is any member of the family she should be treated like, it's your annoying kid sister, and sometimes your daughter when she needs to be spanked.
Really though, what's up with the incestuous analogies? Is this really working for anyone?
Usually, just treating em like women I wanna f*ck works for me *shrug*
I'm getting to like your posts Jimbo. But muscles attract women physically as a lover. Money attracts women as a provider.BigJimbo said:American females don't want to mother males. The fact is that in much of this world girls want to nurture. America males have no clue what that is. Females just don't nurture in America. My gf's have always baked things, had their mother and grandmothers baby me when I visit their commie apartments, and doted on me like I was four years old. Guess what? I love it!
Feeling secure and protected in 2010 equals money. It isn't gayish muscles and an Affliction t-shirt. Money is security. Something that horny teenage boys CAN'T provide. You think some big muscles and a deep voice is going to protect anyone? :crackup: