Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
American females don't want to mother males. The fact is that in much of this world girls want to nurture. America males have no clue what that is. Females just don't nurture in America. My gf's have always baked things, had their mother and grandmothers baby me when I visit their commie apartments, and doted on me like I was four years old. Guess what? I love it!Razor Sharp said:No woman wants to mother a man. It's a guaranteed attraction-killer. She needs to feel secure and protected by YOU, not the other way around.
Also like others mentioned, no woman should be put in the same league as your mom. A parent's unconditional love should NEVER be confused for romantic love - the results are always disastrous.
If there is any member of the family she should be treated like, it's your annoying kid sister, and sometimes your daughter when she needs to be spanked.
Really though, what's up with the incestuous analogies? Is this really working for anyone?
Usually, just treating em like women I wanna f*ck works for me *shrug*
I'm getting to like your posts Jimbo. But muscles attract women physically as a lover. Money attracts women as a provider.BigJimbo said:American females don't want to mother males. The fact is that in much of this world girls want to nurture. America males have no clue what that is. Females just don't nurture in America. My gf's have always baked things, had their mother and grandmothers baby me when I visit their commie apartments, and doted on me like I was four years old. Guess what? I love it!
Feeling secure and protected in 2010 equals money. It isn't gayish muscles and an Affliction t-shirt. Money is security. Something that horny teenage boys CAN'T provide. You think some big muscles and a deep voice is going to protect anyone? :crackup: