Toxic masculinity

[Die Hard]

This shyt is getting out of hand. I remember Rollo warning about it a few years ago but I didn't see the term being used anywhere then. However, nowaydays it's becoming mainstream... I was watching that show "Barry" and one bytch accused the main guy of having toxic masculinity. And now there's this Gilette ad where you can hear the term being used at the very beginning of the ad:

So anyway, I decided that if someone (probably a woman) ever decided to bring up the term 'toxic masculinity', I'm gonna respond by bringing up 'toxic femininity'. Hey, two can play that game, right?!

So they've defined toxic masculinity as negative traits which are typically displayed by men or boys:

• Physical bullying
• Mansplaining
• Catcalling
• not showing emotions, except anger
• etc.

So let's come up with our own list, for toxic femininity! I define it as negative traits which are typically displayed by women or girls!

Here's a start:

• Playing the victim card
• Passive-agressiveness: acting in a condescending way, saying insulting/hurtful things, but doing it in a covert manner.... Then when you call them out on it they say they didn't mean it that way (while they know damn well that it was their intention to insult and provoke!)

Give me more, guys. All the examples you can think of!

 

[nicksaiz65]

 

[nicksaiz65]

“Toxic masculinity” is BS

 

[Spaz]

The only real buttress towards all these is focusing on you.

Working and adding on traits that makes you greater as time passes.

And then passing it on to other men as a form of mentorship.

Focusing on women and their "toxicity" does nothing to assist you towards being greater then before. It's a sure fire way of making a man sink further in a quagmire of his own making.

 

[Music_czar]

Stuff

OP, only cheating wh0re females who aren’t gf material and are used to being treated like cvm dumpsters talk like this. Arguing with these sloots is a waste of your time.

Your time is better spent pumping and dumping, men show their opinion through action not words.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Do you pay attention to geovah witness when they say you are a sinner and you deserve "the worst a man ca get"?

Nope you just go your own way and dont even bother to waste your spit if they are on fire, we should do the same things with these humanoids.

Once the gov will no longer be able to feed the parasites, support nets will be on volutary base and someone will be cut out hopefully.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Well, men pimp out women. Men get young girls hooked on heroin and then pimp our women. Rape is mainly a male on female thing. Murder is almost all male. As are all violent offences. Most pedos are men. Most fraud is male.

Now, I know there are female crimes etc and other issues with women. Heartless manipulation etc, but you have to say, worldwide, men are doing the worst shyt.

In normal, day to day middle class western life, yes, good men are being abused by spiteful women quite a lot. Widen the scope of enquiry and you might see women have a lot to be pissed off about.

I can’t quite believe I’m saying this after years of being astounded by some female behaviour. However, we discount a lot of male crime as just “it’s the way of the world”. That’s perhaps how some women justify their shyt when they rip off some poor sap guy.

All I’m saying is there ARE things as men we should oppose in our gender. We SHOULD aim to be better men, and expose those who aren’t. However, the shyt in the Gillette ad is nothing to do with that. It is wide of the mark and just does what this stuff always does - tries to attack the decent guys for stuff that the bad guys are doing.

The decent guy is the only guy whose paying. The heartless pimp, player and crook feminism and societal controls have actually rewarded. But men cant keep doing a "poor me"

 

[Bokanovsky]

Imagine, for a second, a tampon commercial about "toxic femininity". It shows women backstabbing their friends, gossiping about co-workers, and making false sexual harassment allegations. It also shows female high-school teachers having affairs with underage students, college girls getting drunk and being obnoxious at the club, teenagers getting pregnant and having abortions. At the the end of the commercial, you get some preachy, sermonizing message like "women should do better than that". Can you really even imagine a commercial like that being released??? It would the scandal of the century. The company releasing the commercial would immediately go out of business and the advertising people would be burned at the stake.

 

[Music_czar]

Imagine, for a second, a tampon commercial about "toxic femininity". It shows women backstabbing their friends, gossiping about co-workers, and making false sexual harassment allegations. It also shows female high-school teachers having affairs with underage students, college girls getting drunk and being obnoxious at the club, teenagers getting pregnant and having abortions. At the the end of the commercial, you get some preachy, sermonizing message like "women should do better than that". Can you really even imagine a commercial like that being released??? It would the scandal of the century. The company releasing the commercial would immediately go out of business and the advertising people would be burned at the stake.

There’d be women’s marches all over the world and the company would go out of business over night

Men need to smarten up.. but a lot of them don’t give a fvck. They’re content with getting a little pvssy here and there without minding the storm clouds brewing overhead.

 

[glass half full]

The only real buttress towards all these is focusing on you.

Working and adding on traits that makes you greater as time passes.

And then passing it on to other men as a form of mentorship.

Focusing on women and their "toxicity" does nothing to assist you towards being greater then before. It's a sure fire way of making a man sink further in a quagmire of his own making.

You have to focus on it so you know what to look for, and when. And not dwell on it, but take action. You have to experience it first hand, take note of it, then learn. Been there...I was taken to task by my ex's friends after I had a Stroke. Things were already shytty, but I learned the hard way how to deal with this. Unfortunately you might have to be very upfront about it, depending on the people you're around.

I have a strong sensitivity to stress/conflict after all this, and what happened that took me there. I can't handle conflict anymore. Even a nasty tv show can flip my switch now. But try to tell a female doctor that...when I tell my story they think I'm the problem. Because I'm a man, who shows attitude when I explain, just by saying what I do. That's the only excuse women need. They took my meds away that helped me knock the PTSD I was diagnosed with. So, I have to just "deal with it". Toxic Femininity is indeed very real, and it's certainly not a new thing.

Women can use toxic masculinity as a factor in breaking men down, their marriages, their reputation. It can be a genuinely real Bytch.

 

[glass half full]

The decent guy is the only guy whose paying. The heartless pimp, player and crook feminism and societal controls have actually rewarded. But men cant keep doing a "poor me"

Exactly...see my above post for the consequences of doing that. The part about the doctor.

 

[Spaz]

You have to focus on it so you know what to look for, and when. And not dwell on it, but take action. You have to experience it first hand, take note of it, then learn. Been there...I was taken to task by my ex's friends after I had a Stroke. Things were already shytty, but I learned the hard way how to deal with this. Unfortunately you might have to be very upfront about it, depending on the people you're around.

I have a strong sensitivity to stress/conflict after all this, and what happened that took me there. I can't handle conflict anymore. Even a nasty tv show can flip my switch now. But try to tell a female doctor that...when I tell my story they think I'm the problem. Because I'm a man, who shows attitude when I explain, just by saying what I do. That's the only excuse women need. They took my meds away that helped me knock the PTSD I was diagnosed with. So, I have to just "deal with it". Toxic Femininity is indeed very real, and it's certainly not a new thing.

Women can use toxic masculinity as a factor in breaking men down, their marriages, their reputation. It can be a genuinely real Bytch.

I understand.

I've known people who had a stroke and how it changes them overnight.

 

[Die Hard]

Imagine, for a second, a tampon commercial about "toxic femininity". It shows women backstabbing their friends, gossiping about co-workers, and making false sexual harassment allegations. It also shows female high-school teachers having affairs with underage students, college girls getting drunk and being obnoxious at the club, teenagers getting pregnant and having abortions. At the the end of the commercial, you get some preachy, sermonizing message like "women should do better than that". Can you really even imagine a commercial like that being released??? It would the scandal of the century. The company releasing the commercial would immediately go out of business and the advertising people would be burned at the stake.

You're the first person who actually answers the question in my OP by giving examples of negative traits which are typically female. Thanks you, much appreciated!!

 

[glass half full]

You're the first person who actually answers the question in my OP by giving examples of negative traits which are typically female. Thanks you, much appreciated!!

Originally I was going to give my example for your list- toxic fem herd mentality. That's where I was headed...

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You may not be aware but you are subtly channeling the feminine imperative.

Women commit crimes on a more societal level than an individual level. But they are no less lawless or crimes against humanity.

Metoo movement?
Believe women movement?
Title 9?
Abortion?
Cuckoldry?
False accusations against men?
Socialism?
Special rights?

Alot of dope dealers give most of their $ to women.
So they do it for the puzzy.

Originally I was going to give my example for your list- toxic fem herd mentality. That's where I was headed...

All your priorities need group approval first.

 

[Ranger]

Men are assertive. The crimes of men are not limited to present day. Dawn of time. You kill the rough ones and kick the rest out of the tribe.

The crimes of women are the toxic and below the radar influences of destruction. The internal implosion of a societal structure.

Entire wars have been fought due to damaging influences of women attached to power. Underhanded manipulations of the minds of weak men.

None of this does a damn thing. You start with yourself. You stay the course. The final acts of everything will be laid upon the shoulders of men.
If you don’t want to carry that load...lay it where it belongs. Understand that the natural tendensies of women are anti-civilization where unobstructed breeding takes place.

 

[Ranger]

Not so. I didn’t at once


Read your entire post back, then mine, and you will see I didn’t question the severity of the offence, I questioned the prevalence.

Do you think there are more false allegations of rape, than rape itself?

Did I say cuckoldery was a minor crime, or a rare one?

As for abortion, you think impregnating a woman with an unwanted child and forcing her to raise your baby is fair? What planet are you on? Or is protection on her?

Please read what I post instead of drawing straw men. I’m saying the total of these female behaviours are not even a drop in the ocean to the male crime issue.

As for socialism, open borders, a woman has a democratic right to vote and they are 50% of the population. You can’t do much about that, other than take their vote away.

You’re arguing a point I never made. I’m talking about prevalence, not severity.

For the record, a false allegation should carry the same sentence as rape, and it doesn’t. I agree that’s unfair. Cuckoldry should carry a similar sentence - 10 years minimum. We may agree on a lot of things, but in the global ledger of human atrocities and unpleasantness, you can’t make an argument to say women have a bigger charge sheet than men. It’s preposterous to claim that.

You are intellectually dishonest and I reject your assertion. I didn’t say anything about who or what gender is mostly or partially responsible.

It won’t matter. Everything will be put on the shoulders of men. I watched women drive men to drink because those men have been tricked by this society to be passive. So to be honest, your full of shyt.

 

[Roober]

The issue with identifying aggression or toxic behaviors is that male behaviors are much easier to observe. Men are more physically aggressive (murder, rape, etc.), therefore are certainly more likely to be put on display.

However, womens aggression can be equally as dangerous and the repercussions may be equally as damaging. For example, men will kill other men over a woman. Men will also get physically violent with a woman, whereas a woman will take away his children. Men essentially have to have perfect behavior to retain good relations with their children after a separation, and even that could always be in jeopardy of she suddenly decides to lie to the courts, which happens far more than people admit to).

However, these are things that are far less observable than physical a use inflicted by men. Now, if we start examining how the male suicide rate is 4 times that of women, and how boys are in special education at a rate of 3 to 1 to girls, we may get a bigger picture.

From my own experience, I witness it firsthand. Spend some time with kids of you want to see what really happens as adults. A little boy will hit when he gets upset, or lash out. Little girls use their words, their tone, and direct language to get results. They are both forms of aggression, but as a society, we are failing our young boys in identifying the behaviors properly.

"Boys will be boys" is the exact same thing as "girls are sassy" or have a mouth or whatever. However, you dont ever hear about sassy girls as a real problem. Why?

 

[Spaz]

However, you dont ever hear about sassy girls as a real problem. Why?

Because it's not an actual problem if boys were trained with IDGAF attitude when it comes to girls.

Girls only ever had power WHEN boys handed over their balls.

The only failure I see is that father's don't properly mentor their young sons or their schooling has too many female teacher's.

 

[Ranger]

There is not a single society on planet earth who equates socialism to murder. .

I do.