"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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vazeh

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lets get a wingman group going. kinda like in "the game". go to clubs and pick up girls and have a wingman for a hand.

anyone in?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm so pissed off. Every other buddy here can go to Stages, and I can't do sweet f- all about it :cry:

How's your DJ?
 

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I would be, I'm going to be doing the bootcamp soontimes and I'm going to be working alot on my day game just randomly sarging at malls and whatnot.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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vazeh

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Alaric said:
I would be, I'm going to be doing the bootcamp soontimes and I'm going to be working alot on my day game just randomly sarging at malls and whatnot.

what bootcamp?
 

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Krassus

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Toronto here! Looking for HIGH QUALITY wingmen :) Gotta have good character (this means values, courage, determination, etc), good personality and sense of style, dreams and ambitions, etc.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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spider_007

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Krassus said:
Toronto here! Looking for HIGH QUALITY wingmen :) Gotta have good character (this means values, courage, determination, etc), good personality and sense of style, dreams and ambitions, etc.
jeezzz, you sound like a woman that wants a husband.....:D
 

Krassus

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Haha yea... see, i don't just want wingmen, i want friends, good friends. People i can learn from.
 

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Hey, i'll be down for something...I'm just getting out relationship that lasted a few months. Gotta shake off the rust!

Let me know if there's anything going down.
 

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There's ALWAYS something going down! Check out the Ontario board of WSA (link in signature). Next weekend, we're all going to a model expo, and the weekend after that we're planning a road trip to Montreal for the F1 Weekend.
 

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well i started this thread

ive been doing a lot of readings here and been reading The Game and David DeAngelo's books. so im pretty well versed in this stuff but i just need liked minded people to wing along with so we can motivate one another to sarge girls.

im far from pro. so dont expect much from me. i just want to learn!

how many people are intersted in doing some of this. lets get togheter and do it (sarge)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alaric

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I start bootcamp either tomorrow or thursday while at work. I'll be doing some day sarging (to complete missions) in downtown Toronto.
 

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Awesome, i'm working aboard until Mid-August. Anyone up for anything?
 

Freddy1

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Alaric said:
I start bootcamp either tomorrow or thursday while at work. I'll be doing some day sarging (to complete missions) in downtown Toronto.
Could you explain alittle about the "boot camp" thing? I dont know much about it.
 

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I'm all for the Wingman thing. I sure need some guys to watch my back and I'll wath yours. I'm still pretty phobic when it comes to public pick ups. So thats one of the things I need to work on.
Currently I'm working on myself (mainly makeover, trying to get over my anxiety etc)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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