vazeh
Don Juan
lets get a wingman group going. kinda like in "the game". go to clubs and pick up girls and have a wingman for a hand.
anyone in?
anyone in?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
TORONTO wingmen
- Thread starter vazeh
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Docs
Banned
Hey, I'm in Kingston, but I won't be legal until August =(
vazeh
Don Juan
oh grow up, would ya!Docs said:
Docs
Banned
I'm so pissed off. Every other buddy here can go to Stages, and I can't do sweet f- all about it
How's your DJ?
How's your DJ?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
vazeh
Don Juan
Alaric said:
what bootcamp?
AsianPlayboy
Banned
I just taught a bootcamp up in Toronto... some info for ya.
Dragon:
http://dragonvenusianarts.blogspot.com/
Here's his field report of the bootcamp:
http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2005/09/testimonial-littlepua.html
You've also got the Toronto Lair:
http://www.torontosocial.net/index.php
Venues:
Mink (high quality sets, but kind of a small place)
7 (pretty spacious, but a little too much dance floor to make it a prime pick up spot)
Dragon:
http://dragonvenusianarts.blogspot.com/
Here's his field report of the bootcamp:
http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2005/09/testimonial-littlepua.html
You've also got the Toronto Lair:
http://www.torontosocial.net/index.php
Venues:
Mink (high quality sets, but kind of a small place)
7 (pretty spacious, but a little too much dance floor to make it a prime pick up spot)
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
jeezzz, you sound like a woman that wants a husband.....Krassus said:Toronto here! Looking for HIGH QUALITY wingmen
Apollo
Senior Don Juan
Hey, i'll be down for something...I'm just getting out relationship that lasted a few months. Gotta shake off the rust!
Let me know if there's anything going down.
Let me know if there's anything going down.
There's ALWAYS something going down! Check out the Ontario board of WSA (link in signature). Next weekend, we're all going to a model expo, and the weekend after that we're planning a road trip to Montreal for the F1 Weekend.
vazeh
Don Juan
well i started this thread
ive been doing a lot of readings here and been reading The Game and David DeAngelo's books. so im pretty well versed in this stuff but i just need liked minded people to wing along with so we can motivate one another to sarge girls.
im far from pro. so dont expect much from me. i just want to learn!
how many people are intersted in doing some of this. lets get togheter and do it (sarge)
ive been doing a lot of readings here and been reading The Game and David DeAngelo's books. so im pretty well versed in this stuff but i just need liked minded people to wing along with so we can motivate one another to sarge girls.
im far from pro. so dont expect much from me. i just want to learn!
how many people are intersted in doing some of this. lets get togheter and do it (sarge)
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I'm all for the Wingman thing. I sure need some guys to watch my back and I'll wath yours. I'm still pretty phobic when it comes to public pick ups. So thats one of the things I need to work on.
Currently I'm working on myself (mainly makeover, trying to get over my anxiety etc)
Currently I'm working on myself (mainly makeover, trying to get over my anxiety etc)
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.