vazeh
Don Juan
lets get a wingman group going. kinda like in "the game". go to clubs and pick up girls and have a wingman for a hand.
anyone in?
anyone in?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
TORONTO wingmen
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Docs
Banned
Hey, I'm in Kingston, but I won't be legal until August =(
vazeh
Don Juan
oh grow up, would ya!Docs said:
Docs
Banned
I'm so pissed off. Every other buddy here can go to Stages, and I can't do sweet f- all about it
How's your DJ?
How's your DJ?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
vazeh
Don Juan
Alaric said:
what bootcamp?
AsianPlayboy
Banned
I just taught a bootcamp up in Toronto... some info for ya.
Dragon:
http://dragonvenusianarts.blogspot.com/
Here's his field report of the bootcamp:
http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2005/09/testimonial-littlepua.html
You've also got the Toronto Lair:
http://www.torontosocial.net/index.php
Venues:
Mink (high quality sets, but kind of a small place)
7 (pretty spacious, but a little too much dance floor to make it a prime pick up spot)
Dragon:
http://dragonvenusianarts.blogspot.com/
Here's his field report of the bootcamp:
http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2005/09/testimonial-littlepua.html
You've also got the Toronto Lair:
http://www.torontosocial.net/index.php
Venues:
Mink (high quality sets, but kind of a small place)
7 (pretty spacious, but a little too much dance floor to make it a prime pick up spot)
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
jeezzz, you sound like a woman that wants a husband.....Krassus said:Toronto here! Looking for HIGH QUALITY wingmen
Apollo
Senior Don Juan
Hey, i'll be down for something...I'm just getting out relationship that lasted a few months. Gotta shake off the rust!
Let me know if there's anything going down.
Let me know if there's anything going down.
There's ALWAYS something going down! Check out the Ontario board of WSA (link in signature). Next weekend, we're all going to a model expo, and the weekend after that we're planning a road trip to Montreal for the F1 Weekend.
vazeh
Don Juan
well i started this thread
ive been doing a lot of readings here and been reading The Game and David DeAngelo's books. so im pretty well versed in this stuff but i just need liked minded people to wing along with so we can motivate one another to sarge girls.
im far from pro. so dont expect much from me. i just want to learn!
how many people are intersted in doing some of this. lets get togheter and do it (sarge)
ive been doing a lot of readings here and been reading The Game and David DeAngelo's books. so im pretty well versed in this stuff but i just need liked minded people to wing along with so we can motivate one another to sarge girls.
im far from pro. so dont expect much from me. i just want to learn!
how many people are intersted in doing some of this. lets get togheter and do it (sarge)
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I'm all for the Wingman thing. I sure need some guys to watch my back and I'll wath yours. I'm still pretty phobic when it comes to public pick ups. So thats one of the things I need to work on.
Currently I'm working on myself (mainly makeover, trying to get over my anxiety etc)
Currently I'm working on myself (mainly makeover, trying to get over my anxiety etc)
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.