"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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vazeh

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lets get a wingman group going. kinda like in "the game". go to clubs and pick up girls and have a wingman for a hand.

anyone in?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm so pissed off. Every other buddy here can go to Stages, and I can't do sweet f- all about it :cry:

How's your DJ?
 

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I would be, I'm going to be doing the bootcamp soontimes and I'm going to be working alot on my day game just randomly sarging at malls and whatnot.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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vazeh

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Alaric said:
I would be, I'm going to be doing the bootcamp soontimes and I'm going to be working alot on my day game just randomly sarging at malls and whatnot.

what bootcamp?
 

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Toronto here! Looking for HIGH QUALITY wingmen :) Gotta have good character (this means values, courage, determination, etc), good personality and sense of style, dreams and ambitions, etc.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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spider_007

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Krassus said:
Toronto here! Looking for HIGH QUALITY wingmen :) Gotta have good character (this means values, courage, determination, etc), good personality and sense of style, dreams and ambitions, etc.
jeezzz, you sound like a woman that wants a husband.....:D
 

Krassus

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Haha yea... see, i don't just want wingmen, i want friends, good friends. People i can learn from.
 

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Hey, i'll be down for something...I'm just getting out relationship that lasted a few months. Gotta shake off the rust!

Let me know if there's anything going down.
 

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There's ALWAYS something going down! Check out the Ontario board of WSA (link in signature). Next weekend, we're all going to a model expo, and the weekend after that we're planning a road trip to Montreal for the F1 Weekend.
 

vazeh

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well i started this thread

ive been doing a lot of readings here and been reading The Game and David DeAngelo's books. so im pretty well versed in this stuff but i just need liked minded people to wing along with so we can motivate one another to sarge girls.

im far from pro. so dont expect much from me. i just want to learn!

how many people are intersted in doing some of this. lets get togheter and do it (sarge)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I start bootcamp either tomorrow or thursday while at work. I'll be doing some day sarging (to complete missions) in downtown Toronto.
 

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Awesome, i'm working aboard until Mid-August. Anyone up for anything?
 

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Alaric said:
I start bootcamp either tomorrow or thursday while at work. I'll be doing some day sarging (to complete missions) in downtown Toronto.
Could you explain alittle about the "boot camp" thing? I dont know much about it.
 

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I'm all for the Wingman thing. I sure need some guys to watch my back and I'll wath yours. I'm still pretty phobic when it comes to public pick ups. So thats one of the things I need to work on.
Currently I'm working on myself (mainly makeover, trying to get over my anxiety etc)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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