Bagheera
Don Juan
Lucky bas7ards... 
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Toronto: Guvernment: Oct 11/12: Armin Buuren / Paul Van Dyk
- Thread starter Krassus
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
don_juan_20
Don Juan
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Can't make it to this one. I'll try for next time though.
The list as of wed, oct 8:
apollo - unknown
azn_dj11 - unknown
bagheera - not attending
ice cold - not attending
chlywly - ATTENDING AVB / OCT 11
daneelo S - unknown
don_juan_20 - not attending
elimidate - ATTENDING AVB / OCT 11
krassus - ATTENDING AVB / OCT 11
synthesis - unknown
sushi - unknown
toronto's finest - unknown
apollo - unknown
azn_dj11 - unknown
bagheera - not attending
ice cold - not attending
chlywly - ATTENDING AVB / OCT 11
daneelo S - unknown
don_juan_20 - not attending
elimidate - ATTENDING AVB / OCT 11
krassus - ATTENDING AVB / OCT 11
synthesis - unknown
sushi - unknown
toronto's finest - unknown
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I think chlywly's driving. Not sure about where we're meeting up though. Still waiting to hear back from a group of people who are also going there tomorrow - there's about 30 of em. May get together with them beforehand. What's your cell?
Elimidate
Senior Don Juan
Alright the scene is set!
I'm having a house party before and we're all cruising over to the
Guv afterwards.
If you're interested in stopping by call my cell 416-999-BRAD.
If not whoever wants to meet, lets hookup @ 1am inside the
enterance to the back of the Guv where they sell t-shirts etc.
Cheers, B
I'm having a house party before and we're all cruising over to the
Guv afterwards.
If you're interested in stopping by call my cell 416-999-BRAD.
If not whoever wants to meet, lets hookup @ 1am inside the
enterance to the back of the Guv where they sell t-shirts etc.
Cheers, B
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Synthesis
Don Juan
Hey dudes..
It sounds like it's gonna be a lot of fun tonight.
Krassus, your mailbox was full, so I couldn't reply back.
Elimidate, I just left a message on your cell phone's answering machine.
Um, so is that the agreed upon meeting place? Back of the government entrance where they sell t-shirts?
ttyl,
Synthesis
It sounds like it's gonna be a lot of fun tonight.
Krassus, your mailbox was full, so I couldn't reply back.
Elimidate, I just left a message on your cell phone's answering machine.
Um, so is that the agreed upon meeting place? Back of the government entrance where they sell t-shirts?
ttyl,
Synthesis
Elimidate
Senior Don Juan
Sorry guys, my house party is capped!
I just checked my messages and email and there's already over 50 people coming.
I'll be there by 2am. The place is going to be a fiasco so please email me your cell # to [email protected].
CHeers, B
I just checked my messages and email and there's already over 50 people coming.
I'll be there by 2am. The place is going to be a fiasco so please email me your cell # to [email protected].
CHeers, B
Lets meet beforehand at the place mentioned below. Its a few minutes from the club.
MEETING PLACE (closes at 2:45AM)
Scotland Yard, 56 The Esplanade 416-364-6572
http://ca.maps.yahoo.com/maps_result?ed=w0tcZep_0To7EORJVduWdc4sJk.jsgep6A--&csz=toronto&country=ca
ARMIN'S SET (3:30-7:30AM)
Just got off the phone with Guv. Armin's starting at 3:30 until close, about 2 hours later than we expected. His set will be around 4 hours long.
MEETING PLACE (closes at 2:45AM)
Scotland Yard, 56 The Esplanade 416-364-6572
http://ca.maps.yahoo.com/maps_result?ed=w0tcZep_0To7EORJVduWdc4sJk.jsgep6A--&csz=toronto&country=ca
ARMIN'S SET (3:30-7:30AM)
Just got off the phone with Guv. Armin's starting at 3:30 until close, about 2 hours later than we expected. His set will be around 4 hours long.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Wicked night guys! But for the record though, this is the last time i'm leaving before the set ends, even if the DJ is still going strong at 7AM
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