Bagheera
Don Juan
Lucky bas7ards... 
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Toronto: Guvernment: Oct 11/12: Armin Buuren / Paul Van Dyk
- Thread starter Krassus
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
don_juan_20
Don Juan
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Can't make it to this one. I'll try for next time though.
The list as of wed, oct 8:
apollo - unknown
azn_dj11 - unknown
bagheera - not attending
ice cold - not attending
chlywly - ATTENDING AVB / OCT 11
daneelo S - unknown
don_juan_20 - not attending
elimidate - ATTENDING AVB / OCT 11
krassus - ATTENDING AVB / OCT 11
synthesis - unknown
sushi - unknown
toronto's finest - unknown
apollo - unknown
azn_dj11 - unknown
bagheera - not attending
ice cold - not attending
chlywly - ATTENDING AVB / OCT 11
daneelo S - unknown
don_juan_20 - not attending
elimidate - ATTENDING AVB / OCT 11
krassus - ATTENDING AVB / OCT 11
synthesis - unknown
sushi - unknown
toronto's finest - unknown
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I think chlywly's driving. Not sure about where we're meeting up though. Still waiting to hear back from a group of people who are also going there tomorrow - there's about 30 of em. May get together with them beforehand. What's your cell?
Elimidate
Senior Don Juan
Alright the scene is set!
I'm having a house party before and we're all cruising over to the
Guv afterwards.
If you're interested in stopping by call my cell 416-999-BRAD.
If not whoever wants to meet, lets hookup @ 1am inside the
enterance to the back of the Guv where they sell t-shirts etc.
Cheers, B
I'm having a house party before and we're all cruising over to the
Guv afterwards.
If you're interested in stopping by call my cell 416-999-BRAD.
If not whoever wants to meet, lets hookup @ 1am inside the
enterance to the back of the Guv where they sell t-shirts etc.
Cheers, B
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Synthesis
Don Juan
Hey dudes..
It sounds like it's gonna be a lot of fun tonight.
Krassus, your mailbox was full, so I couldn't reply back.
Elimidate, I just left a message on your cell phone's answering machine.
Um, so is that the agreed upon meeting place? Back of the government entrance where they sell t-shirts?
ttyl,
Synthesis
It sounds like it's gonna be a lot of fun tonight.
Krassus, your mailbox was full, so I couldn't reply back.
Elimidate, I just left a message on your cell phone's answering machine.
Um, so is that the agreed upon meeting place? Back of the government entrance where they sell t-shirts?
ttyl,
Synthesis
Elimidate
Senior Don Juan
Sorry guys, my house party is capped!
I just checked my messages and email and there's already over 50 people coming.
I'll be there by 2am. The place is going to be a fiasco so please email me your cell # to [email protected].
CHeers, B
I just checked my messages and email and there's already over 50 people coming.
I'll be there by 2am. The place is going to be a fiasco so please email me your cell # to [email protected].
CHeers, B
Lets meet beforehand at the place mentioned below. Its a few minutes from the club.
MEETING PLACE (closes at 2:45AM)
Scotland Yard, 56 The Esplanade 416-364-6572
http://ca.maps.yahoo.com/maps_result?ed=w0tcZep_0To7EORJVduWdc4sJk.jsgep6A--&csz=toronto&country=ca
ARMIN'S SET (3:30-7:30AM)
Just got off the phone with Guv. Armin's starting at 3:30 until close, about 2 hours later than we expected. His set will be around 4 hours long.
MEETING PLACE (closes at 2:45AM)
Scotland Yard, 56 The Esplanade 416-364-6572
http://ca.maps.yahoo.com/maps_result?ed=w0tcZep_0To7EORJVduWdc4sJk.jsgep6A--&csz=toronto&country=ca
ARMIN'S SET (3:30-7:30AM)
Just got off the phone with Guv. Armin's starting at 3:30 until close, about 2 hours later than we expected. His set will be around 4 hours long.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Wicked night guys! But for the record though, this is the last time i'm leaving before the set ends, even if the DJ is still going strong at 7AM
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