Bagheera
Don Juan
Lucky bas7ards... 
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Toronto: Guvernment: Oct 11/12: Armin Buuren / Paul Van Dyk
- Thread starter Krassus
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
don_juan_20
Don Juan
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Can't make it to this one. I'll try for next time though.
The list as of wed, oct 8:
apollo - unknown
azn_dj11 - unknown
bagheera - not attending
ice cold - not attending
chlywly - ATTENDING AVB / OCT 11
daneelo S - unknown
don_juan_20 - not attending
elimidate - ATTENDING AVB / OCT 11
krassus - ATTENDING AVB / OCT 11
synthesis - unknown
sushi - unknown
toronto's finest - unknown
apollo - unknown
azn_dj11 - unknown
bagheera - not attending
ice cold - not attending
chlywly - ATTENDING AVB / OCT 11
daneelo S - unknown
don_juan_20 - not attending
elimidate - ATTENDING AVB / OCT 11
krassus - ATTENDING AVB / OCT 11
synthesis - unknown
sushi - unknown
toronto's finest - unknown
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I think chlywly's driving. Not sure about where we're meeting up though. Still waiting to hear back from a group of people who are also going there tomorrow - there's about 30 of em. May get together with them beforehand. What's your cell?
Elimidate
Senior Don Juan
Alright the scene is set!
I'm having a house party before and we're all cruising over to the
Guv afterwards.
If you're interested in stopping by call my cell 416-999-BRAD.
If not whoever wants to meet, lets hookup @ 1am inside the
enterance to the back of the Guv where they sell t-shirts etc.
Cheers, B
I'm having a house party before and we're all cruising over to the
Guv afterwards.
If you're interested in stopping by call my cell 416-999-BRAD.
If not whoever wants to meet, lets hookup @ 1am inside the
enterance to the back of the Guv where they sell t-shirts etc.
Cheers, B
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Synthesis
Don Juan
Hey dudes..
It sounds like it's gonna be a lot of fun tonight.
Krassus, your mailbox was full, so I couldn't reply back.
Elimidate, I just left a message on your cell phone's answering machine.
Um, so is that the agreed upon meeting place? Back of the government entrance where they sell t-shirts?
ttyl,
Synthesis
It sounds like it's gonna be a lot of fun tonight.
Krassus, your mailbox was full, so I couldn't reply back.
Elimidate, I just left a message on your cell phone's answering machine.
Um, so is that the agreed upon meeting place? Back of the government entrance where they sell t-shirts?
ttyl,
Synthesis
Elimidate
Senior Don Juan
Sorry guys, my house party is capped!
I just checked my messages and email and there's already over 50 people coming.
I'll be there by 2am. The place is going to be a fiasco so please email me your cell # to [email protected].
CHeers, B
I just checked my messages and email and there's already over 50 people coming.
I'll be there by 2am. The place is going to be a fiasco so please email me your cell # to [email protected].
CHeers, B
Lets meet beforehand at the place mentioned below. Its a few minutes from the club.
MEETING PLACE (closes at 2:45AM)
Scotland Yard, 56 The Esplanade 416-364-6572
http://ca.maps.yahoo.com/maps_result?ed=w0tcZep_0To7EORJVduWdc4sJk.jsgep6A--&csz=toronto&country=ca
ARMIN'S SET (3:30-7:30AM)
Just got off the phone with Guv. Armin's starting at 3:30 until close, about 2 hours later than we expected. His set will be around 4 hours long.
MEETING PLACE (closes at 2:45AM)
Scotland Yard, 56 The Esplanade 416-364-6572
http://ca.maps.yahoo.com/maps_result?ed=w0tcZep_0To7EORJVduWdc4sJk.jsgep6A--&csz=toronto&country=ca
ARMIN'S SET (3:30-7:30AM)
Just got off the phone with Guv. Armin's starting at 3:30 until close, about 2 hours later than we expected. His set will be around 4 hours long.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Wicked night guys! But for the record though, this is the last time i'm leaving before the set ends, even if the DJ is still going strong at 7AM
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