Bagheera
Don Juan
Lucky bas7ards... 
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Toronto: Guvernment: Oct 11/12: Armin Buuren / Paul Van Dyk
- Thread starter Krassus
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
don_juan_20
Don Juan
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Can't make it to this one. I'll try for next time though.
The list as of wed, oct 8:
apollo - unknown
azn_dj11 - unknown
bagheera - not attending
ice cold - not attending
chlywly - ATTENDING AVB / OCT 11
daneelo S - unknown
don_juan_20 - not attending
elimidate - ATTENDING AVB / OCT 11
krassus - ATTENDING AVB / OCT 11
synthesis - unknown
sushi - unknown
toronto's finest - unknown
apollo - unknown
azn_dj11 - unknown
bagheera - not attending
ice cold - not attending
chlywly - ATTENDING AVB / OCT 11
daneelo S - unknown
don_juan_20 - not attending
elimidate - ATTENDING AVB / OCT 11
krassus - ATTENDING AVB / OCT 11
synthesis - unknown
sushi - unknown
toronto's finest - unknown
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I think chlywly's driving. Not sure about where we're meeting up though. Still waiting to hear back from a group of people who are also going there tomorrow - there's about 30 of em. May get together with them beforehand. What's your cell?
Elimidate
Senior Don Juan
Alright the scene is set!
I'm having a house party before and we're all cruising over to the
Guv afterwards.
If you're interested in stopping by call my cell 416-999-BRAD.
If not whoever wants to meet, lets hookup @ 1am inside the
enterance to the back of the Guv where they sell t-shirts etc.
Cheers, B
I'm having a house party before and we're all cruising over to the
Guv afterwards.
If you're interested in stopping by call my cell 416-999-BRAD.
If not whoever wants to meet, lets hookup @ 1am inside the
enterance to the back of the Guv where they sell t-shirts etc.
Cheers, B
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Synthesis
Don Juan
Hey dudes..
It sounds like it's gonna be a lot of fun tonight.
Krassus, your mailbox was full, so I couldn't reply back.
Elimidate, I just left a message on your cell phone's answering machine.
Um, so is that the agreed upon meeting place? Back of the government entrance where they sell t-shirts?
ttyl,
Synthesis
It sounds like it's gonna be a lot of fun tonight.
Krassus, your mailbox was full, so I couldn't reply back.
Elimidate, I just left a message on your cell phone's answering machine.
Um, so is that the agreed upon meeting place? Back of the government entrance where they sell t-shirts?
ttyl,
Synthesis
Elimidate
Senior Don Juan
Sorry guys, my house party is capped!
I just checked my messages and email and there's already over 50 people coming.
I'll be there by 2am. The place is going to be a fiasco so please email me your cell # to [email protected].
CHeers, B
I just checked my messages and email and there's already over 50 people coming.
I'll be there by 2am. The place is going to be a fiasco so please email me your cell # to [email protected].
CHeers, B
Lets meet beforehand at the place mentioned below. Its a few minutes from the club.
MEETING PLACE (closes at 2:45AM)
Scotland Yard, 56 The Esplanade 416-364-6572
http://ca.maps.yahoo.com/maps_result?ed=w0tcZep_0To7EORJVduWdc4sJk.jsgep6A--&csz=toronto&country=ca
ARMIN'S SET (3:30-7:30AM)
Just got off the phone with Guv. Armin's starting at 3:30 until close, about 2 hours later than we expected. His set will be around 4 hours long.
MEETING PLACE (closes at 2:45AM)
Scotland Yard, 56 The Esplanade 416-364-6572
http://ca.maps.yahoo.com/maps_result?ed=w0tcZep_0To7EORJVduWdc4sJk.jsgep6A--&csz=toronto&country=ca
ARMIN'S SET (3:30-7:30AM)
Just got off the phone with Guv. Armin's starting at 3:30 until close, about 2 hours later than we expected. His set will be around 4 hours long.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Wicked night guys! But for the record though, this is the last time i'm leaving before the set ends, even if the DJ is still going strong at 7AM
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