Vigilante7
Senior Don Juan
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im 17
Toronto//
Toronto//
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Toronto Djs Check In
- Thread starter Krassus
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Lmao you're my friends lil sisters age, mackin them already eh, good for youOriginally posted by R3N3GAD3
I'm 14 in Toronto, 1/2 way to DJ. However, I don't think that counts for much considering I got 5 years till I can get into the Guv
The Exile
Don Juan
just turned 17, Mississauga, by Square 1. 1 more year to go, woohoo!
New Toronto Mac to be
Hey,
I just signed on the site. So i'm a real novice. I'm learning lots of great things though! Wish i knew about this site when I was 14! I'm 24 so its about time I hone the skills!
I am living and schooling in downtown TO.
Hey,
I just signed on the site. So i'm a real novice. I'm learning lots of great things though! Wish i knew about this site when I was 14! I'm 24 so its about time I hone the skills!
I am living and schooling in downtown TO.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
S
Some1Else
Guest
Hey, just joined.
I am 19...looking to hook up with broads 17-21. I'm definatly in for some of the meets....my friends are the biggest AFC's on the planet and i NEED wings. lol.
Don't club or pimp much in the winter but once it gets warmer i'll be at every meeting.
I am 19...looking to hook up with broads 17-21. I'm definatly in for some of the meets....my friends are the biggest AFC's on the planet and i NEED wings. lol.
Don't club or pimp much in the winter but once it gets warmer i'll be at every meeting.
Jordache.DJ
Don Juan
I like the idea of meeting some other DJ's. I live in London and I visit Toronto occasionally on weekends. Problem is, I don't know many people in the city, and I like to hit the clubs with a buddy by my side (it's great to have a wingman, and hell, it's great to have the company!).
So if you all are interested in meeting up, consider me there if it's on a weekend.
// Jordache, age 21
So if you all are interested in meeting up, consider me there if it's on a weekend.
// Jordache, age 21
Hey guys! 3rd year York U student here. I noticed there was activity late last year with the TO DJ's, but what's going on now? Two more questions:
How many of your are 19+?
What does 'rus' mean next to each name? Russian? Anyway, you can add me to the list; I'm Italian.
Post back!
How many of your are 19+?
What does 'rus' mean next to each name? Russian? Anyway, you can add me to the list; I'm Italian.
Post back!
There is no activity because i've all but given up trying to schedule things with people around here. All but a few select individuals constantly make up excuses to back out of everything. If you think you're one of those few though, you know how to reach me.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I'm not sure what the point is either, but it could be alright. For me, going to a club alone isn't an option (it seems kinda weird). Most of my friends are in LTR's, including my brother so that sucks too... and friends who aren't in LTR's are away at Uni. Krassus has a good point about just going and f**king partying.
I saw there was an October meeting... how did that go? If there were ever another get together I would DEFINITELY suggest a 19+ club. *shrug*
Pap
Don Juan
Join Cliff's List, where you can get a free newsletter by emailing [email protected]. Also, at the bottom of every newsletter is a list of the lairs in every major city in the world. You can find the contact for the Toronto Lair on the list and get in contact with others that are interested in talking about pickup and winging.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
AndoraStar
Don Juan
I'm in Toronto.. but I'm a female
AndoraStar
Don Juan
am I hot? You'd have to decide for yourself!
I come here to see what you guys are thinking..
I come here to see what you guys are thinking..
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.