Vigilante7
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im 17
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Toronto Djs Check In
- Thread starter Krassus
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Lmao you're my friends lil sisters age, mackin them already eh, good for youOriginally posted by R3N3GAD3
I'm 14 in Toronto, 1/2 way to DJ. However, I don't think that counts for much considering I got 5 years till I can get into the Guv
The Exile
Don Juan
just turned 17, Mississauga, by Square 1. 1 more year to go, woohoo!
New Toronto Mac to be
Hey,
I just signed on the site. So i'm a real novice. I'm learning lots of great things though! Wish i knew about this site when I was 14! I'm 24 so its about time I hone the skills!
I am living and schooling in downtown TO.
Hey,
I just signed on the site. So i'm a real novice. I'm learning lots of great things though! Wish i knew about this site when I was 14! I'm 24 so its about time I hone the skills!
I am living and schooling in downtown TO.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
S
Some1Else
Guest
Hey, just joined.
I am 19...looking to hook up with broads 17-21. I'm definatly in for some of the meets....my friends are the biggest AFC's on the planet and i NEED wings. lol.
Don't club or pimp much in the winter but once it gets warmer i'll be at every meeting.
I am 19...looking to hook up with broads 17-21. I'm definatly in for some of the meets....my friends are the biggest AFC's on the planet and i NEED wings. lol.
Don't club or pimp much in the winter but once it gets warmer i'll be at every meeting.
Jordache.DJ
Don Juan
I like the idea of meeting some other DJ's. I live in London and I visit Toronto occasionally on weekends. Problem is, I don't know many people in the city, and I like to hit the clubs with a buddy by my side (it's great to have a wingman, and hell, it's great to have the company!).
So if you all are interested in meeting up, consider me there if it's on a weekend.
// Jordache, age 21
So if you all are interested in meeting up, consider me there if it's on a weekend.
// Jordache, age 21
Hey guys! 3rd year York U student here. I noticed there was activity late last year with the TO DJ's, but what's going on now? Two more questions:
How many of your are 19+?
What does 'rus' mean next to each name? Russian? Anyway, you can add me to the list; I'm Italian.
Post back!
How many of your are 19+?
What does 'rus' mean next to each name? Russian? Anyway, you can add me to the list; I'm Italian.
Post back!
There is no activity because i've all but given up trying to schedule things with people around here. All but a few select individuals constantly make up excuses to back out of everything. If you think you're one of those few though, you know how to reach me.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'm not sure what the point is either, but it could be alright. For me, going to a club alone isn't an option (it seems kinda weird). Most of my friends are in LTR's, including my brother so that sucks too... and friends who aren't in LTR's are away at Uni. Krassus has a good point about just going and f**king partying.
I saw there was an October meeting... how did that go? If there were ever another get together I would DEFINITELY suggest a 19+ club. *shrug*
Pap
Don Juan
Join Cliff's List, where you can get a free newsletter by emailing [email protected]. Also, at the bottom of every newsletter is a list of the lairs in every major city in the world. You can find the contact for the Toronto Lair on the list and get in contact with others that are interested in talking about pickup and winging.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
AndoraStar
Don Juan
I'm in Toronto.. but I'm a female
AndoraStar
Don Juan
am I hot? You'd have to decide for yourself!
I come here to see what you guys are thinking..
I come here to see what you guys are thinking..
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.