Vigilante7
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im 17
Toronto//
Toronto//
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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- Thread starter Krassus
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Lmao you're my friends lil sisters age, mackin them already eh, good for youOriginally posted by R3N3GAD3
I'm 14 in Toronto, 1/2 way to DJ. However, I don't think that counts for much considering I got 5 years till I can get into the Guv
The Exile
Don Juan
just turned 17, Mississauga, by Square 1. 1 more year to go, woohoo!
New Toronto Mac to be
Hey,
I just signed on the site. So i'm a real novice. I'm learning lots of great things though! Wish i knew about this site when I was 14! I'm 24 so its about time I hone the skills!
I am living and schooling in downtown TO.
Hey,
I just signed on the site. So i'm a real novice. I'm learning lots of great things though! Wish i knew about this site when I was 14! I'm 24 so its about time I hone the skills!
I am living and schooling in downtown TO.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
S
Some1Else
Guest
Hey, just joined.
I am 19...looking to hook up with broads 17-21. I'm definatly in for some of the meets....my friends are the biggest AFC's on the planet and i NEED wings. lol.
Don't club or pimp much in the winter but once it gets warmer i'll be at every meeting.
I am 19...looking to hook up with broads 17-21. I'm definatly in for some of the meets....my friends are the biggest AFC's on the planet and i NEED wings. lol.
Don't club or pimp much in the winter but once it gets warmer i'll be at every meeting.
Jordache.DJ
Don Juan
I like the idea of meeting some other DJ's. I live in London and I visit Toronto occasionally on weekends. Problem is, I don't know many people in the city, and I like to hit the clubs with a buddy by my side (it's great to have a wingman, and hell, it's great to have the company!).
So if you all are interested in meeting up, consider me there if it's on a weekend.
// Jordache, age 21
So if you all are interested in meeting up, consider me there if it's on a weekend.
// Jordache, age 21
Hey guys! 3rd year York U student here. I noticed there was activity late last year with the TO DJ's, but what's going on now? Two more questions:
How many of your are 19+?
What does 'rus' mean next to each name? Russian? Anyway, you can add me to the list; I'm Italian.
Post back!
How many of your are 19+?
What does 'rus' mean next to each name? Russian? Anyway, you can add me to the list; I'm Italian.
Post back!
There is no activity because i've all but given up trying to schedule things with people around here. All but a few select individuals constantly make up excuses to back out of everything. If you think you're one of those few though, you know how to reach me.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I'm not sure what the point is either, but it could be alright. For me, going to a club alone isn't an option (it seems kinda weird). Most of my friends are in LTR's, including my brother so that sucks too... and friends who aren't in LTR's are away at Uni. Krassus has a good point about just going and f**king partying.
I saw there was an October meeting... how did that go? If there were ever another get together I would DEFINITELY suggest a 19+ club. *shrug*
Pap
Don Juan
Join Cliff's List, where you can get a free newsletter by emailing [email protected]. Also, at the bottom of every newsletter is a list of the lairs in every major city in the world. You can find the contact for the Toronto Lair on the list and get in contact with others that are interested in talking about pickup and winging.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
AndoraStar
Don Juan
I'm in Toronto.. but I'm a female
AndoraStar
Don Juan
am I hot? You'd have to decide for yourself!
I come here to see what you guys are thinking..
I come here to see what you guys are thinking..
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.