Vigilante7
Senior Don Juan
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im 17
Toronto//
Toronto//
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Toronto Djs Check In
- Thread starter Krassus
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Lmao you're my friends lil sisters age, mackin them already eh, good for youOriginally posted by R3N3GAD3
I'm 14 in Toronto, 1/2 way to DJ. However, I don't think that counts for much considering I got 5 years till I can get into the Guv
The Exile
Don Juan
just turned 17, Mississauga, by Square 1. 1 more year to go, woohoo!
New Toronto Mac to be
Hey,
I just signed on the site. So i'm a real novice. I'm learning lots of great things though! Wish i knew about this site when I was 14! I'm 24 so its about time I hone the skills!
I am living and schooling in downtown TO.
Hey,
I just signed on the site. So i'm a real novice. I'm learning lots of great things though! Wish i knew about this site when I was 14! I'm 24 so its about time I hone the skills!
I am living and schooling in downtown TO.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
S
Some1Else
Guest
Hey, just joined.
I am 19...looking to hook up with broads 17-21. I'm definatly in for some of the meets....my friends are the biggest AFC's on the planet and i NEED wings. lol.
Don't club or pimp much in the winter but once it gets warmer i'll be at every meeting.
I am 19...looking to hook up with broads 17-21. I'm definatly in for some of the meets....my friends are the biggest AFC's on the planet and i NEED wings. lol.
Don't club or pimp much in the winter but once it gets warmer i'll be at every meeting.
Jordache.DJ
Don Juan
I like the idea of meeting some other DJ's. I live in London and I visit Toronto occasionally on weekends. Problem is, I don't know many people in the city, and I like to hit the clubs with a buddy by my side (it's great to have a wingman, and hell, it's great to have the company!).
So if you all are interested in meeting up, consider me there if it's on a weekend.
// Jordache, age 21
So if you all are interested in meeting up, consider me there if it's on a weekend.
// Jordache, age 21
Hey guys! 3rd year York U student here. I noticed there was activity late last year with the TO DJ's, but what's going on now? Two more questions:
How many of your are 19+?
What does 'rus' mean next to each name? Russian? Anyway, you can add me to the list; I'm Italian.
Post back!
How many of your are 19+?
What does 'rus' mean next to each name? Russian? Anyway, you can add me to the list; I'm Italian.
Post back!
There is no activity because i've all but given up trying to schedule things with people around here. All but a few select individuals constantly make up excuses to back out of everything. If you think you're one of those few though, you know how to reach me.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I'm not sure what the point is either, but it could be alright. For me, going to a club alone isn't an option (it seems kinda weird). Most of my friends are in LTR's, including my brother so that sucks too... and friends who aren't in LTR's are away at Uni. Krassus has a good point about just going and f**king partying.
I saw there was an October meeting... how did that go? If there were ever another get together I would DEFINITELY suggest a 19+ club. *shrug*
Pap
Don Juan
Join Cliff's List, where you can get a free newsletter by emailing [email protected]. Also, at the bottom of every newsletter is a list of the lairs in every major city in the world. You can find the contact for the Toronto Lair on the list and get in contact with others that are interested in talking about pickup and winging.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
AndoraStar
Don Juan
I'm in Toronto.. but I'm a female
AndoraStar
Don Juan
am I hot? You'd have to decide for yourself!
I come here to see what you guys are thinking..
I come here to see what you guys are thinking..
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.