"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Clitvin
Don Juan
Looking for a wingman? Msg me
Marf
Don Juan
occasionally i visit Toronto (cuz my moms family is from there...)
picard
Master Don Juan
I live East york.
Dee-Zy
Master Don Juan
Alboh is in TO right now, but he lost all hopes from this site, lol.
I find it ironic how it is a girl who is organizing this stuff.
I'll let Alboh know about this, maybe he'll give you guys a second chance.
DZ
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
mflair2000
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wolfsbaneforever
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Yes, I would be much in your debt, if my fellow DJs (AFCs may not apply) would let me know what they think of women in Toronto, Canada.
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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=84543
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
picard
Master Don Juan
Sweetcheeks
Don Juan
I graduated from UT last summer, with my second degree.
I've got wingman experience, but the problem is, the girls often end up falling for me...
Sweetcheeks
Don Juan
Simple answer. Some people have no friends, suffer from low self esteem and bitterness, and take pleasure from the idea of doing their small part in making others uncomfortable.
And notice, the message was very brief.
BTW, I was joking. Sort of.
RaWBLooD
Master Don Juan
aww thanks buddyOriginally posted by Sweetcheeks
Simple answer. Some people have no friends, suffer from low self esteem and bitterness, and take pleasure from the idea of doing their small part in making others uncomfortable.
And notice, the message was very brief.
BTW, I was joking. Sort of.
,ill bring the champagne next time
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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only newbie ?
u cant learn until u see above youworstepisode
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.