"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Krassus

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I'm currently looking for a few quality wingmen. Anyone here fall into that category? ;)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Marf

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hehe....half-canadian half swedish...
occasionally i visit Toronto (cuz my moms family is from there...)
:p
 

picard

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Is there any wingman here in the age range 30-40yrs ? I am 38yrs old. I want to meet wingman to check out chicks in age 28-35yrs old.

I live East york.
 

Dee-Zy

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wow there's alot of djs in TO

Alboh is in TO right now, but he lost all hopes from this site, lol.




I find it ironic how it is a girl who is organizing this stuff.

I'll let Alboh know about this, maybe he'll give you guys a second chance.



DZ
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wolfsbaneforever

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I feel the winter...

Yes, I would be much in your debt, if my fellow DJs (AFCs may not apply) would let me know what they think of women in Toronto, Canada.
 

RaWBLooD

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i was pretty sure i posted in this thread.:confused: :confused:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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picard

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Add captain picard 38yrs old to the list. I am going to be promoted to Admiral soon:D
 

Sweetcheeks

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I'm in Toronto, too

I graduated from UT last summer, with my second degree.

I've got wingman experience, but the problem is, the girls often end up falling for me...
 

RaWBLooD

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Re: I'm in Toronto, too

Originally posted by Sweetcheeks
I graduated from UT last summer, with my second degree.

I've got wingman experience, but the problem is, the girls often end up falling for me...
Oh ya thats what happens :rolleyes:
 

Sweetcheeks

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Dude, why the hell does this guy talk so much shyt about people? And how in the hell does he average 29.39 posts per day?
Simple answer. Some people have no friends, suffer from low self esteem and bitterness, and take pleasure from the idea of doing their small part in making others uncomfortable.

And notice, the message was very brief.

BTW, I was joking. Sort of. :D
 

RaWBLooD

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Originally posted by Sweetcheeks
Simple answer. Some people have no friends, suffer from low self esteem and bitterness, and take pleasure from the idea of doing their small part in making others uncomfortable.

And notice, the message was very brief.

BTW, I was joking. Sort of. :D
aww thanks buddy:whistle:,
ill bring the champagne next time :up:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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homi

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signing in here

20male

currently at school at laurier though

im looking or a wingman possibly, or someone whos really experienced/confident whom i can observe
 

worstepisode

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Hey, I'm lookin for newbie DJ's possibly from UofT St. George. I'm finding it hard to actually do this so maybe we can motive each other to get off our asses.
 

CHOCOLATE(COLA)

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Originally posted by worstepisode
Hey, I'm lookin for newbie DJ's possibly from UofT St. George. I'm finding it hard to actually do this so maybe we can motive each other to get off our asses.
only newbie ?:p u cant learn until u see above you
 

worstepisode

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What happened to this thing? Did everyone just disappear and become AFC's again?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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