"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm currently looking for a few quality wingmen. Anyone here fall into that category? ;)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hehe....half-canadian half swedish...
occasionally i visit Toronto (cuz my moms family is from there...)
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Is there any wingman here in the age range 30-40yrs ? I am 38yrs old. I want to meet wingman to check out chicks in age 28-35yrs old.

I live East york.
 
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wow there's alot of djs in TO

Alboh is in TO right now, but he lost all hopes from this site, lol.




I find it ironic how it is a girl who is organizing this stuff.

I'll let Alboh know about this, maybe he'll give you guys a second chance.



DZ
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wolfsbaneforever

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I feel the winter...

Yes, I would be much in your debt, if my fellow DJs (AFCs may not apply) would let me know what they think of women in Toronto, Canada.
 
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i was pretty sure i posted in this thread.:confused: :confused:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Add captain picard 38yrs old to the list. I am going to be promoted to Admiral soon:D
 
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I'm in Toronto, too

I graduated from UT last summer, with my second degree.

I've got wingman experience, but the problem is, the girls often end up falling for me...
 
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Re: I'm in Toronto, too

Originally posted by Sweetcheeks
I graduated from UT last summer, with my second degree.

I've got wingman experience, but the problem is, the girls often end up falling for me...
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Oh ya thats what happens :rolleyes:
 
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Dude, why the hell does this guy talk so much shyt about people? And how in the hell does he average 29.39 posts per day?
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Simple answer. Some people have no friends, suffer from low self esteem and bitterness, and take pleasure from the idea of doing their small part in making others uncomfortable.

And notice, the message was very brief.

BTW, I was joking. Sort of. :D
 
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RaWBLooD

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Originally posted by Sweetcheeks
Simple answer. Some people have no friends, suffer from low self esteem and bitterness, and take pleasure from the idea of doing their small part in making others uncomfortable.

And notice, the message was very brief.

BTW, I was joking. Sort of. :D
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aww thanks buddy:whistle:,
ill bring the champagne next time :up:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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signing in here

20male

currently at school at laurier though

im looking or a wingman possibly, or someone whos really experienced/confident whom i can observe
 
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Hey, I'm lookin for newbie DJ's possibly from UofT St. George. I'm finding it hard to actually do this so maybe we can motive each other to get off our asses.
 
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CHOCOLATE(COLA)

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Originally posted by worstepisode
Hey, I'm lookin for newbie DJ's possibly from UofT St. George. I'm finding it hard to actually do this so maybe we can motive each other to get off our asses.
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only newbie ?:p u cant learn until u see above you
 
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What happened to this thing? Did everyone just disappear and become AFC's again?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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