"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm currently looking for a few quality wingmen. Anyone here fall into that category? ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hehe....half-canadian half swedish...
occasionally i visit Toronto (cuz my moms family is from there...)
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Is there any wingman here in the age range 30-40yrs ? I am 38yrs old. I want to meet wingman to check out chicks in age 28-35yrs old.

I live East york.
 
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wow there's alot of djs in TO

Alboh is in TO right now, but he lost all hopes from this site, lol.




I find it ironic how it is a girl who is organizing this stuff.

I'll let Alboh know about this, maybe he'll give you guys a second chance.



DZ
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I feel the winter...

Yes, I would be much in your debt, if my fellow DJs (AFCs may not apply) would let me know what they think of women in Toronto, Canada.
 
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i was pretty sure i posted in this thread.:confused: :confused:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Add captain picard 38yrs old to the list. I am going to be promoted to Admiral soon:D
 
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I'm in Toronto, too

I graduated from UT last summer, with my second degree.

I've got wingman experience, but the problem is, the girls often end up falling for me...
 
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Re: I'm in Toronto, too

Originally posted by Sweetcheeks
I graduated from UT last summer, with my second degree.

I've got wingman experience, but the problem is, the girls often end up falling for me...
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Oh ya thats what happens :rolleyes:
 
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Dude, why the hell does this guy talk so much shyt about people? And how in the hell does he average 29.39 posts per day?
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Simple answer. Some people have no friends, suffer from low self esteem and bitterness, and take pleasure from the idea of doing their small part in making others uncomfortable.

And notice, the message was very brief.

BTW, I was joking. Sort of. :D
 
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Originally posted by Sweetcheeks
Simple answer. Some people have no friends, suffer from low self esteem and bitterness, and take pleasure from the idea of doing their small part in making others uncomfortable.

And notice, the message was very brief.

BTW, I was joking. Sort of. :D
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aww thanks buddy:whistle:,
ill bring the champagne next time :up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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signing in here

20male

currently at school at laurier though

im looking or a wingman possibly, or someone whos really experienced/confident whom i can observe
 
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Hey, I'm lookin for newbie DJ's possibly from UofT St. George. I'm finding it hard to actually do this so maybe we can motive each other to get off our asses.
 
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Originally posted by worstepisode
Hey, I'm lookin for newbie DJ's possibly from UofT St. George. I'm finding it hard to actually do this so maybe we can motive each other to get off our asses.
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only newbie ?:p u cant learn until u see above you
 
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What happened to this thing? Did everyone just disappear and become AFC's again?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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