"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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About a week ago I gave an HB8.5 a wet willy, because I was kinda upset at her, just to see what would happen. She got all upset and started talking about how she was going to have some one kick my ass.

I know her interest level was high. But now i am not sure.every time I see her she just stares at me. I can talk to her but she just doesnt seem as interested any more.

what do u guys think and what should I do
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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LikRetsam

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Dude, I'm in the same situation! The other day, I shot HB8's mom in the leg and let her bleed to death in agony before HB8's eyes. Now she doesn't seem too interrested, what gives?!
 

RaMar

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yeah sounds like she may have felt a little grossed out by this. It probably will just take her a while to forget about it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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idiot_boyfriend

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I think that giving her a "wet willy" wasn't the best of ideas....

Now that we got that out of the way, don't apologize since it's already too late. Plus, it seems that she is way too sensitive about such a little thing. Just let her be upset; you can find other HBs.
 

oakraiderz2

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How old are you?? 5??
 

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If someone did that to me, I wouldn't like it very much. Unless she likes that kind of stuff, I wouldn't recommend it. Even if I was five years old. She was probably grossed out by it. And I know I'm stating the obvious, but...yeah. Learn from your mistakes.
 

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If you did it to some guy, he would have punched you in the face. Smooth move, Romeo
 
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I did it because she was pissing me off. I didnt want to do something to mean or tell her she was pissing me off and i just kinda did it. It wasnt planed out it just poped into my head. I did it in a playful way and was lafing and thought it was pretty dam funny to see her reaction.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
Dude, I'm in the same situation! The other day, I shot HB8's mom in the leg and let her bleed to death in agony before HB8's eyes. Now she doesn't seem too interrested, what gives?!
dude you too?
what's going on, that seems to be happening more and more
 
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