"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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About a week ago I gave an HB8.5 a wet willy, because I was kinda upset at her, just to see what would happen. She got all upset and started talking about how she was going to have some one kick my ass.

I know her interest level was high. But now i am not sure.every time I see her she just stares at me. I can talk to her but she just doesnt seem as interested any more.

what do u guys think and what should I do
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dude, I'm in the same situation! The other day, I shot HB8's mom in the leg and let her bleed to death in agony before HB8's eyes. Now she doesn't seem too interrested, what gives?!
 
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yeah sounds like she may have felt a little grossed out by this. It probably will just take her a while to forget about it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think that giving her a "wet willy" wasn't the best of ideas....

Now that we got that out of the way, don't apologize since it's already too late. Plus, it seems that she is way too sensitive about such a little thing. Just let her be upset; you can find other HBs.
 
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How old are you?? 5??
 
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If someone did that to me, I wouldn't like it very much. Unless she likes that kind of stuff, I wouldn't recommend it. Even if I was five years old. She was probably grossed out by it. And I know I'm stating the obvious, but...yeah. Learn from your mistakes.
 
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If you did it to some guy, he would have punched you in the face. Smooth move, Romeo
 
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I did it because she was pissing me off. I didnt want to do something to mean or tell her she was pissing me off and i just kinda did it. It wasnt planed out it just poped into my head. I did it in a playful way and was lafing and thought it was pretty dam funny to see her reaction.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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another?

Originally posted by LikRetsam
Dude, I'm in the same situation! The other day, I shot HB8's mom in the leg and let her bleed to death in agony before HB8's eyes. Now she doesn't seem too interrested, what gives?!
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dude you too?
what's going on, that seems to be happening more and more
 
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