Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Too Mean?!!!!!

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About a week ago I gave an HB8.5 a wet willy, because I was kinda upset at her, just to see what would happen. She got all upset and started talking about how she was going to have some one kick my ass.

I know her interest level was high. But now i am not sure.every time I see her she just stares at me. I can talk to her but she just doesnt seem as interested any more.

what do u guys think and what should I do
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dude, I'm in the same situation! The other day, I shot HB8's mom in the leg and let her bleed to death in agony before HB8's eyes. Now she doesn't seem too interrested, what gives?!
 
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yeah sounds like she may have felt a little grossed out by this. It probably will just take her a while to forget about it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think that giving her a "wet willy" wasn't the best of ideas....

Now that we got that out of the way, don't apologize since it's already too late. Plus, it seems that she is way too sensitive about such a little thing. Just let her be upset; you can find other HBs.
 
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How old are you?? 5??
 
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If someone did that to me, I wouldn't like it very much. Unless she likes that kind of stuff, I wouldn't recommend it. Even if I was five years old. She was probably grossed out by it. And I know I'm stating the obvious, but...yeah. Learn from your mistakes.
 
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If you did it to some guy, he would have punched you in the face. Smooth move, Romeo
 
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I did it because she was pissing me off. I didnt want to do something to mean or tell her she was pissing me off and i just kinda did it. It wasnt planed out it just poped into my head. I did it in a playful way and was lafing and thought it was pretty dam funny to see her reaction.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
Dude, I'm in the same situation! The other day, I shot HB8's mom in the leg and let her bleed to death in agony before HB8's eyes. Now she doesn't seem too interrested, what gives?!
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dude you too?
what's going on, that seems to be happening more and more
 
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