I've been considering getting my tongue pierced and was curious what you guys' experience is with this. How bad was the actual piercing? What about the following few days? And most of all, what did the ladies have to say about it?
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Exp said:
plz refer to your manual of man hood, and just think about what your going to do :rock:
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personally I think it's gay.
also, consider that if you're looking to get employed somewhere respectable, they wouldn't take kindly to it.
also, consider that if you're looking to get employed somewhere respectable, they wouldn't take kindly to it.
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She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
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i dont think it gay or that your a tranny , but i do find it that piercing your toung is stupid... its sooo wannabepunk im against athority bla bla bla im cool thing... Dont pierce it , pierce your ears if you want ,but tounge no , nipples no , eyebrows or underlip no , penis HELL NO!!!
and dont do it because everyone else is doing it.....
and dont do it because everyone else is doing it.....
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Warboss Alex said:
I've thought about getting my tongue pierced. I've just found it interesting. Also, many girls keep begging me to get it done. My brother-in-law has his pierced twice, and is a manager. Unless you sit there and play with it, most people don't even know you've got one.
If you get it pierced, get it closer to the tip than the back. Tip is for p*ssy licking, and back is for d*ck sucking.
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You need to forget about p*ssy licking and work on your bench.Skilla_Staz said:
penkitten
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i think its stupid.
diablo
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For guys, getting your tongue pierced was somewhat trendy among early high schoolers for about a 2 year period, starting around 1999 and ending somewhere around 2001. The desire to jump on a fashion train that derailed half a decade ago is almost sad - unless you live in a spot that trends generally take 5 years to get to? For our edification, how old are you?
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Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
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