I've been considering getting my tongue pierced and was curious what you guys' experience is with this. How bad was the actual piercing? What about the following few days? And most of all, what did the ladies have to say about it?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Exp said:What are you, a transvestite??
Yow! LMFAO. I'm definately not a tranny. I know tons of dudes who've had it done. Maybe it's a local thing.Exp said:What are you, a transvestite??
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Warboss Alex said:personally I think it's gay.
also, consider that if you're looking to get employed somewhere respectable, they wouldn't take kindly to it.
You need to forget about p*ssy licking and work on your bench.Skilla_Staz said:I've thought about getting my tongue pierced. I've just found it interesting. Also, many girls keep begging me to get it done. My brother-in-law has his pierced twice, and is a manager. Unless you sit there and play with it, most people don't even know you've got one.
If you get it pierced, get it closer to the tip than the back. Tip is for p*ssy licking, and back is for d*ck sucking.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.