I've been considering getting my tongue pierced and was curious what you guys' experience is with this. How bad was the actual piercing? What about the following few days? And most of all, what did the ladies have to say about it?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Exp said:What are you, a transvestite??
Yow! LMFAO. I'm definately not a tranny. I know tons of dudes who've had it done. Maybe it's a local thing.Exp said:What are you, a transvestite??
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Warboss Alex said:personally I think it's gay.
also, consider that if you're looking to get employed somewhere respectable, they wouldn't take kindly to it.
You need to forget about p*ssy licking and work on your bench.Skilla_Staz said:I've thought about getting my tongue pierced. I've just found it interesting. Also, many girls keep begging me to get it done. My brother-in-law has his pierced twice, and is a manager. Unless you sit there and play with it, most people don't even know you've got one.
If you get it pierced, get it closer to the tip than the back. Tip is for p*ssy licking, and back is for d*ck sucking.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.