I've been considering getting my tongue pierced and was curious what you guys' experience is with this. How bad was the actual piercing? What about the following few days? And most of all, what did the ladies have to say about it?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Exp said:What are you, a transvestite??
Yow! LMFAO. I'm definately not a tranny. I know tons of dudes who've had it done. Maybe it's a local thing.Exp said:What are you, a transvestite??
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Warboss Alex said:personally I think it's gay.
also, consider that if you're looking to get employed somewhere respectable, they wouldn't take kindly to it.
You need to forget about p*ssy licking and work on your bench.Skilla_Staz said:I've thought about getting my tongue pierced. I've just found it interesting. Also, many girls keep begging me to get it done. My brother-in-law has his pierced twice, and is a manager. Unless you sit there and play with it, most people don't even know you've got one.
If you get it pierced, get it closer to the tip than the back. Tip is for p*ssy licking, and back is for d*ck sucking.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.