"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Tongue piercing

Cableguy

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I've been considering getting my tongue pierced and was curious what you guys' experience is with this. How bad was the actual piercing? What about the following few days? And most of all, what did the ladies have to say about it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Cableguy

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Exp said:
What are you, a transvestite??
Yow! LMFAO. I'm definately not a tranny. I know tons of dudes who've had it done. Maybe it's a local thing.
 

Warboss Alex

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personally I think it's gay.

also, consider that if you're looking to get employed somewhere respectable, they wouldn't take kindly to it.
 

piranha45

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i guess its hard to beat the allure of jamming a metal spike in ur tongue and leaving it in there.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Morphiex

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i dont think it gay or that your a tranny , but i do find it that piercing your toung is stupid... its sooo wannabepunk im against athority bla bla bla im cool thing... Dont pierce it , pierce your ears if you want ,but tounge no , nipples no , eyebrows or underlip no , penis HELL NO!!!

and dont do it because everyone else is doing it.....
 

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Warboss Alex said:
personally I think it's gay.

also, consider that if you're looking to get employed somewhere respectable, they wouldn't take kindly to it.

I've thought about getting my tongue pierced. I've just found it interesting. Also, many girls keep begging me to get it done. My brother-in-law has his pierced twice, and is a manager. Unless you sit there and play with it, most people don't even know you've got one.

If you get it pierced, get it closer to the tip than the back. Tip is for p*ssy licking, and back is for d*ck sucking.
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
I've thought about getting my tongue pierced. I've just found it interesting. Also, many girls keep begging me to get it done. My brother-in-law has his pierced twice, and is a manager. Unless you sit there and play with it, most people don't even know you've got one.

If you get it pierced, get it closer to the tip than the back. Tip is for p*ssy licking, and back is for d*ck sucking.
You need to forget about p*ssy licking and work on your bench. :D
 

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For guys, getting your tongue pierced was somewhat trendy among early high schoolers for about a 2 year period, starting around 1999 and ending somewhere around 2001. The desire to jump on a fashion train that derailed half a decade ago is almost sad - unless you live in a spot that trends generally take 5 years to get to? For our edification, how old are you?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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