"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Tom Leykis, Tariq Nasheed
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Tariq was the guy who started pua, before it was called pua, and that is a true fact. Tariq just called it macking.
if you not listening to tom and Tariq on podcast or youtube you messing out on a lot of true information about women.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
If you want to learn more about women and the dating game check out my free podcast at http://www.mrlocariotv.com
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TDH said:
For simple common sense answer articles to frequently asked questions about chicks, check out GirlsChase. (There's a lot of good articles and answers on the main site and other areas of it for free.)
http://www.girlschase.com/
For common sense advice on Youtube check out "Arkady39" (Practical Happiness.com).
http://www.youtube.com/user/arkady39
Those are the only two I'd bother with.
Tom Lykis I take with a grain of salt. As for the poster who mentioned PS. Player Supreme is the poor man's bootleg version of Tariq Nasheed.
Tariq Nasheed is good from what I've seen.
Please cite your sources. My source tells me his book was published in 2000, which would put him at least 6 years behind the speed-seduction guy.. forget his name.. and 4 years after I started posting on ASF about seduction.Fatal Jay said:
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the samething pua guys was saying about cold approaches etc. Tariq been touched on that stuff. A lot of that pua stuff came from dudes who use to be hardcore nerds, Tariq was on some pimping prostitues type game. Teaching guys to get money from women. Pua teach you how to potentially get laid and Tariq teach you to go far beyond just a lay, he teach to get the full benefits out of a woman not only her body but her mind.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
LOL how long have you been doing this, and how old are you? I use embedded commands all the time. Please, I've been in the "seduction community" since late 1996. If you don't have at least that much experience then don't go around spouting your little opinions about what's "outdated" or what's being used by people who have been doing this ten times longer than yourself, ok?casaanova said:
I was around when Mystery was shoving tape recorders down his pants to go out and record himself (unsuccessfully) hitting on chicks.
Don't talk as if you know something when you clearly don't.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
He did a radio show which was all about women called "The Black Phillip Show".
I find Tariq's radio show is a bit too slow and drawn out, he keeps advertising paraphernalia, so I prefer Patrice O'neal.
Tom Leykis is ok I guess, but I agree with NN, take it with a grain of salt.