Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
TDH said:These are some guys i listen to to get some knowledge and hear their ideology are there any other guys like this on youtube or that have podcasts and other things for free
Please cite your sources. My source tells me his book was published in 2000, which would put him at least 6 years behind the speed-seduction guy.. forget his name.. and 4 years after I started posting on ASF about seduction.Fatal Jay said:Tariq was the guy who started pua, before it was called pua, and that is a true fact. Tariq just called it macking.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Speed seduction was nothing more than a novelty - it's outdated now (i doubt anybody on this board uses it). Practical consistencies like negs, pre-selection and wingwomen didn't come about until much laterZarky said:Please cite your sources. My source tells me his book was published in 2000, which would put him at least 6 years behind the speed-seduction guy.. forget his name.. and 4 years after I started posting on ASF about seduction.
LOL how long have you been doing this, and how old are you? I use embedded commands all the time. Please, I've been in the "seduction community" since late 1996. If you don't have at least that much experience then don't go around spouting your little opinions about what's "outdated" or what's being used by people who have been doing this ten times longer than yourself, ok?casaanova said:Speed seduction was nothing more than a novelty - it's outdated now (i doubt anybody on this board uses it). Practical consistencies like negs, pre-selection and wingwomen didn't come about until much later
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.