"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Tom Leykis, Tariq Nasheed
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Tariq was the guy who started pua, before it was called pua, and that is a true fact. Tariq just called it macking.
if you not listening to tom and Tariq on podcast or youtube you messing out on a lot of true information about women.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
If you want to learn more about women and the dating game check out my free podcast at http://www.mrlocariotv.com
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For simple common sense answer articles to frequently asked questions about chicks, check out GirlsChase. (There's a lot of good articles and answers on the main site and other areas of it for free.)
http://www.girlschase.com/
For common sense advice on Youtube check out "Arkady39" (Practical Happiness.com).
http://www.youtube.com/user/arkady39
Those are the only two I'd bother with.
Tom Lykis I take with a grain of salt. As for the poster who mentioned PS. Player Supreme is the poor man's bootleg version of Tariq Nasheed.
Tariq Nasheed is good from what I've seen.
Please cite your sources. My source tells me his book was published in 2000, which would put him at least 6 years behind the speed-seduction guy.. forget his name.. and 4 years after I started posting on ASF about seduction.Fatal Jay said:
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the samething pua guys was saying about cold approaches etc. Tariq been touched on that stuff. A lot of that pua stuff came from dudes who use to be hardcore nerds, Tariq was on some pimping prostitues type game. Teaching guys to get money from women. Pua teach you how to potentially get laid and Tariq teach you to go far beyond just a lay, he teach to get the full benefits out of a woman not only her body but her mind.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
LOL how long have you been doing this, and how old are you? I use embedded commands all the time. Please, I've been in the "seduction community" since late 1996. If you don't have at least that much experience then don't go around spouting your little opinions about what's "outdated" or what's being used by people who have been doing this ten times longer than yourself, ok?casaanova said:
I was around when Mystery was shoving tape recorders down his pants to go out and record himself (unsuccessfully) hitting on chicks.
Don't talk as if you know something when you clearly don't.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
He did a radio show which was all about women called "The Black Phillip Show".
I find Tariq's radio show is a bit too slow and drawn out, he keeps advertising paraphernalia, so I prefer Patrice O'neal.
Tom Leykis is ok I guess, but I agree with NN, take it with a grain of salt.