"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Tom Leykis, Tariq Nasheed
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Tariq was the guy who started pua, before it was called pua, and that is a true fact. Tariq just called it macking.
if you not listening to tom and Tariq on podcast or youtube you messing out on a lot of true information about women.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
If you want to learn more about women and the dating game check out my free podcast at http://www.mrlocariotv.com
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TDH said:
For simple common sense answer articles to frequently asked questions about chicks, check out GirlsChase. (There's a lot of good articles and answers on the main site and other areas of it for free.)
http://www.girlschase.com/
For common sense advice on Youtube check out "Arkady39" (Practical Happiness.com).
http://www.youtube.com/user/arkady39
Those are the only two I'd bother with.
Tom Lykis I take with a grain of salt. As for the poster who mentioned PS. Player Supreme is the poor man's bootleg version of Tariq Nasheed.
Tariq Nasheed is good from what I've seen.
Please cite your sources. My source tells me his book was published in 2000, which would put him at least 6 years behind the speed-seduction guy.. forget his name.. and 4 years after I started posting on ASF about seduction.Fatal Jay said:
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the samething pua guys was saying about cold approaches etc. Tariq been touched on that stuff. A lot of that pua stuff came from dudes who use to be hardcore nerds, Tariq was on some pimping prostitues type game. Teaching guys to get money from women. Pua teach you how to potentially get laid and Tariq teach you to go far beyond just a lay, he teach to get the full benefits out of a woman not only her body but her mind.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
LOL how long have you been doing this, and how old are you? I use embedded commands all the time. Please, I've been in the "seduction community" since late 1996. If you don't have at least that much experience then don't go around spouting your little opinions about what's "outdated" or what's being used by people who have been doing this ten times longer than yourself, ok?casaanova said:
I was around when Mystery was shoving tape recorders down his pants to go out and record himself (unsuccessfully) hitting on chicks.
Don't talk as if you know something when you clearly don't.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
He did a radio show which was all about women called "The Black Phillip Show".
I find Tariq's radio show is a bit too slow and drawn out, he keeps advertising paraphernalia, so I prefer Patrice O'neal.
Tom Leykis is ok I guess, but I agree with NN, take it with a grain of salt.