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Don Juan
The more I read about this guy the more AFC he seems, hes like a stalker and buying a 35 millon dollar mansion for his girl, yet he manages to keep her, but then again he is Tom Cruse.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Tom Cruse AFC of the year?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
GloriouslyInsane
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- May 7, 2006
- Messages
- 507
- Reaction score
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Erm with 35mil dollars you can keep almost anyone...
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
I think Brad Jolee would give Tom a run for his AFC money.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
She was a big fan of his before any of this, and I'm sure he'll get plenty of enjoyment out of the mansion himself.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
NickSCFC2000
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 22, 2007
- Messages
- 218
- Reaction score
- 1
Sometims being an AFC is the way to go, all depends on the woman.
KneghtRyder
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 6, 2006
- Messages
- 471
- Reaction score
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have u seem him in top gun dude he can at least ACT to be a player maybe not one in real life
NickSCFC2000
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 22, 2007
- Messages
- 218
- Reaction score
- 1
Perhaps Penelope Cruz doesn't go for players