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Don Juan
The more I read about this guy the more AFC he seems, hes like a stalker and buying a 35 millon dollar mansion for his girl, yet he manages to keep her, but then again he is Tom Cruse.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Tom Cruse AFC of the year?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
GloriouslyInsane
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- May 7, 2006
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- 507
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Erm with 35mil dollars you can keep almost anyone...
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
I think Brad Jolee would give Tom a run for his AFC money.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
She was a big fan of his before any of this, and I'm sure he'll get plenty of enjoyment out of the mansion himself.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
NickSCFC2000
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 22, 2007
- Messages
- 218
- Reaction score
- 1
Sometims being an AFC is the way to go, all depends on the woman.
KneghtRyder
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 6, 2006
- Messages
- 471
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have u seem him in top gun dude he can at least ACT to be a player maybe not one in real life
NickSCFC2000
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 22, 2007
- Messages
- 218
- Reaction score
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Perhaps Penelope Cruz doesn't go for players