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Don Juan
The more I read about this guy the more AFC he seems, hes like a stalker and buying a 35 millon dollar mansion for his girl, yet he manages to keep her, but then again he is Tom Cruse.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Tom Cruse AFC of the year?
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- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
GloriouslyInsane
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- May 7, 2006
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Erm with 35mil dollars you can keep almost anyone...
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
I think Brad Jolee would give Tom a run for his AFC money.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
She was a big fan of his before any of this, and I'm sure he'll get plenty of enjoyment out of the mansion himself.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
NickSCFC2000
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 22, 2007
- Messages
- 218
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Sometims being an AFC is the way to go, all depends on the woman.
KneghtRyder
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 6, 2006
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have u seem him in top gun dude he can at least ACT to be a player maybe not one in real life
NickSCFC2000
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 22, 2007
- Messages
- 218
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Perhaps Penelope Cruz doesn't go for players