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Don Juan
The more I read about this guy the more AFC he seems, hes like a stalker and buying a 35 millon dollar mansion for his girl, yet he manages to keep her, but then again he is Tom Cruse.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Tom Cruse AFC of the year?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
GloriouslyInsane
Master Don Juan
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- May 7, 2006
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Erm with 35mil dollars you can keep almost anyone...
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
I think Brad Jolee would give Tom a run for his AFC money.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
She was a big fan of his before any of this, and I'm sure he'll get plenty of enjoyment out of the mansion himself.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
NickSCFC2000
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 22, 2007
- Messages
- 218
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Sometims being an AFC is the way to go, all depends on the woman.
KneghtRyder
Senior Don Juan
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- Dec 6, 2006
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have u seem him in top gun dude he can at least ACT to be a player maybe not one in real life
NickSCFC2000
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 22, 2007
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Perhaps Penelope Cruz doesn't go for players