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Don Juan
The more I read about this guy the more AFC he seems, hes like a stalker and buying a 35 millon dollar mansion for his girl, yet he manages to keep her, but then again he is Tom Cruse.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Tom Cruse AFC of the year?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
GloriouslyInsane
Master Don Juan
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- May 7, 2006
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Erm with 35mil dollars you can keep almost anyone...
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
I think Brad Jolee would give Tom a run for his AFC money.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
She was a big fan of his before any of this, and I'm sure he'll get plenty of enjoyment out of the mansion himself.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
NickSCFC2000
Senior Don Juan
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- Jan 22, 2007
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Sometims being an AFC is the way to go, all depends on the woman.
KneghtRyder
Senior Don Juan
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- Dec 6, 2006
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have u seem him in top gun dude he can at least ACT to be a player maybe not one in real life
NickSCFC2000
Senior Don Juan
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- Jan 22, 2007
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Perhaps Penelope Cruz doesn't go for players