"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tired all the time...

bud_2005

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For my age, 19, I shouldn't be this tired most of the time. I feel worthless unless I get about 10 hours of sleep. Even then I feel like taking a nap throughout the day. I sleep very sound and I always sleep straight through from when I go to bed until I wake up in the morning. What should I do to fix this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bible_Belt

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Some people sleep more than others. You could try eating an especially healthy diet and cutting out regular alcohol consumption and most refined sugar and refined flours.

I like coffee to stay awake when needed. Excessive amounts are probably not healthy, but reasonable amounts are probably not especially harmful. I sweeten it with anything but white sugar; molasses, sugar in the raw, sweet sorghum, maple syrup, and honey are all healthier. I try to drink it quickly and brush my teeth immediately afterward.
 

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depression and lack of physical activity can lead to fatigue.
 

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your probably missing something from your diet, most likely some vitamin or mineral.

Take vitamin and mineral supplements
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Change your diet. Less sugar, less simple carbs.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ThreeStorms

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Are you sitting in your room most of the times? CO2, the thing you produce while breathing, makes you tired. Get more fresh air. Leave a window open. Do sports.
 

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Go to the doctor to get tested for glandular fever... don't worry it's not fatal, it's just a pain in the azz for 6 months or so... and quite common for people your age.
 

Spike_the_Dragon

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I've been having alot of the same problems. Honestly, I've been eating alot of raw, uncooked greens and I have alot more energy. You might also try taking up meditation... it helps.

If you are under alot of stress, drinking too much alcohol, smoking too much, Fvcking around with crazy women... it all wears on you after awhile.
 

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Buy a better mattress.

Didn't I just give this advice to someone with the exact same problem?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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bud_2005 said:
For my age, 19, I shouldn't be this tired most of the time. I feel worthless unless I get about 10 hours of sleep. Even then I feel like taking a nap throughout the day. I sleep very sound and I always sleep straight through from when I go to bed until I wake up in the morning. What should I do to fix this?
Give more details of your lifestyle e.g. exercise, diet, sex, work etc....
 
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