eikk008822
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Hey guys, what are some quick conversation starters you can use on women you see that are cashiers, waitresses etc.
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Tips for cashiers, waitresses, etc?
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eikk008822
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Let me rephrase that, how do you quickly generate attraction with cashiers and waitresses?
plate's_empty
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I started a thread about this before. Didn't get any responses 
Not necessarily about waitresses but about cashiers, receptionists. Every day people you'd run into while out and about doing your normal daily activities.
Hot Receptionist: "Hi, how are you today?"
Boring nobody: "Good, how are you?
Hot Receptionist: "Good, thanks."
Boring nobody: (nothing)
I was looking for a response to "Hi, how are you today?" Considering if you're out, you can hear it up to ten times in a day.
Not necessarily about waitresses but about cashiers, receptionists. Every day people you'd run into while out and about doing your normal daily activities. Hot Receptionist: "Hi, how are you today?"
Boring nobody: "Good, how are you?
Hot Receptionist: "Good, thanks."
Boring nobody: (nothing)
I was looking for a response to "Hi, how are you today?" Considering if you're out, you can hear it up to ten times in a day.
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Has it really gotten to this point where men have no idea what to say to women who are PAID to talk to you?
Are we THAT socially inept now?
Geez. It's like people who look for advice on how to start up conversations at a business ****tail event or something.
This is ridiculous...
Are we THAT socially inept now?
Geez. It's like people who look for advice on how to start up conversations at a business ****tail event or something.
This is ridiculous...
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How about... "Hey babe, your job sucks and I bet you're broke, wanna come and ruin my life?".
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Why criticize? The guy just wants some help. I manage a lot of cashiers and can tell you to simply be as natural as possible. Give em what you got man. They work there, they are not running away anywhere. They will either be into or not. Slightly more direct considering your time is short though.
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If you have trouble keeping a conversation going with women who are paid to BS with you, then I can't help you.
if you want tips on picking them up, though? Remember that they're the help. You can't hit on them in the same way, and I'd lean toward not hitting on them at all.
however, there are exceptions to this rule. Talk to them as if they're women that you're not sexually interested in and see where that leads you.
if you want tips on picking them up, though? Remember that they're the help. You can't hit on them in the same way, and I'd lean toward not hitting on them at all.
however, there are exceptions to this rule. Talk to them as if they're women that you're not sexually interested in and see where that leads you.
plate's_empty
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That's the whole point. They're being PAID to talk to you, instead of WANTING to talk to you.BigSmooth said:
He was asking advice on how to generate attraction from these quick interactions. That's all dude. Relax.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I am relaxed. I'm just dumbfounded that we are now treating these girls like they're from a different planet.plate's_empty said:
From my experience, if you can generally get girls to be attracted to you normally, you can get waitresses, cashiers, hostesses, and anyone else that is paid to talk to you be ATTRACTED to you.
It's really not that hard. There's too much over-analyzing going on over here.
I've picked up my fair share of waitresses before. The best thing to do from what I've gathered is be charming and relatable. Being a d0uche does not work very well. The easier you make her life on the job, the more she will notice you. Oh, and looks do play a bigger part here because your window of opportunity is definitely smaller so the way you are judged is a bit more materialistic.
Just be charming people. Be well-liked. Be well-dressed. That's all there is to it.
~ BSmooth