eikk008822
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Hey guys, what are some quick conversation starters you can use on women you see that are cashiers, waitresses etc.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Tips for cashiers, waitresses, etc?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
eikk008822
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Let me rephrase that, how do you quickly generate attraction with cashiers and waitresses?
plate's_empty
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I started a thread about this before. Didn't get any responses 
Not necessarily about waitresses but about cashiers, receptionists. Every day people you'd run into while out and about doing your normal daily activities.
Hot Receptionist: "Hi, how are you today?"
Boring nobody: "Good, how are you?
Hot Receptionist: "Good, thanks."
Boring nobody: (nothing)
I was looking for a response to "Hi, how are you today?" Considering if you're out, you can hear it up to ten times in a day.
Not necessarily about waitresses but about cashiers, receptionists. Every day people you'd run into while out and about doing your normal daily activities. Hot Receptionist: "Hi, how are you today?"
Boring nobody: "Good, how are you?
Hot Receptionist: "Good, thanks."
Boring nobody: (nothing)
I was looking for a response to "Hi, how are you today?" Considering if you're out, you can hear it up to ten times in a day.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Has it really gotten to this point where men have no idea what to say to women who are PAID to talk to you?
Are we THAT socially inept now?
Geez. It's like people who look for advice on how to start up conversations at a business ****tail event or something.
This is ridiculous...
Are we THAT socially inept now?
Geez. It's like people who look for advice on how to start up conversations at a business ****tail event or something.
This is ridiculous...
LiveFreeX
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How about... "Hey babe, your job sucks and I bet you're broke, wanna come and ruin my life?".
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Why criticize? The guy just wants some help. I manage a lot of cashiers and can tell you to simply be as natural as possible. Give em what you got man. They work there, they are not running away anywhere. They will either be into or not. Slightly more direct considering your time is short though.
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If you have trouble keeping a conversation going with women who are paid to BS with you, then I can't help you.
if you want tips on picking them up, though? Remember that they're the help. You can't hit on them in the same way, and I'd lean toward not hitting on them at all.
however, there are exceptions to this rule. Talk to them as if they're women that you're not sexually interested in and see where that leads you.
if you want tips on picking them up, though? Remember that they're the help. You can't hit on them in the same way, and I'd lean toward not hitting on them at all.
however, there are exceptions to this rule. Talk to them as if they're women that you're not sexually interested in and see where that leads you.
plate's_empty
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That's the whole point. They're being PAID to talk to you, instead of WANTING to talk to you.BigSmooth said:
He was asking advice on how to generate attraction from these quick interactions. That's all dude. Relax.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I am relaxed. I'm just dumbfounded that we are now treating these girls like they're from a different planet.plate's_empty said:
From my experience, if you can generally get girls to be attracted to you normally, you can get waitresses, cashiers, hostesses, and anyone else that is paid to talk to you be ATTRACTED to you.
It's really not that hard. There's too much over-analyzing going on over here.
I've picked up my fair share of waitresses before. The best thing to do from what I've gathered is be charming and relatable. Being a d0uche does not work very well. The easier you make her life on the job, the more she will notice you. Oh, and looks do play a bigger part here because your window of opportunity is definitely smaller so the way you are judged is a bit more materialistic.
Just be charming people. Be well-liked. Be well-dressed. That's all there is to it.
~ BSmooth